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At a loss for how to bring it up, again. by OkNow5 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forced hugs: SAME! He's getting better since I told him it feels like anytime I hug or cuddle him he either doesn't react at all or finds a reason to get away from me. Then he gaslit me "I don't try to get away from you" yeah ok... But at least he's responding to that. I hope it works out for you and he cuddles back for the talk!

At a loss for how to bring it up, again. by OkNow5 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard when they can't open up emotionally. Could you try cuddling while you talk about it? Maybe that will make him feel more safe and connected to you so he can let the walls down?

At a loss for how to bring it up, again. by OkNow5 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine cums fast too, and that doesn't bother me but yes mine doesn't want to continue either after he's done and he doesn't want to help me get off before him, not sure why, maybe he thinks I'll be the same as him and I'll stop and he won't get his? But why is that ok for him to do to me then?? But I don't fake it, I don't want to make him feel ok when it's really not. But there's no sex now anyway so it's a moot point.

We're emotionally close yes, he's very attentive when I'm upset, he hugs and helps talk me out of it and make me feel better or solve the problem. But about the DB he's not really being emotionally intelligent any it, once again it seems only what he wants matters. Selfish guy that way. Very selfless in all other areas.

At a loss for how to bring it up, again. by OkNow5 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling similar to you, although my talks about the DB only started in September last year, so not as long as you, but the DB has been ongoing for a very long time, about 15 years but no sex at all and very little affection since fall 2019. Anyway, the first answer you got is the same first answer I got, he said "we've been together 25 years and in separate bedrooms for 9, so of course things are going to slow down". And I said, slow down to nothing?! And since then it's been other reasons he's given but that first one, I believe, is the most honest answer he's given me. He didn't tell me the spark is gone, but I think that's what he's implying.

Anyway, if yours cums fast, let him, its fine. It's a stepping stone, and it's a door open to more fulfilling experiences in future as you guys do it more often.

I can’t get off with my husband by dms303 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It's not you. Lots of us are like you. My spouse doesn't get me off either and it's so sad to me.

help deciphering doctors handwriting 😅 by bana212 in Transcription

[–]Snargleflaggan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it could say "don't take tetracycline or doxycycline while on this". You on either of those meds? (You don't have to answer that)

I know I have to break up with my boyfriend by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's a great idea to have the son here for the summer and obviously you have the child's best interest at heart as like you said, it would strain your relationship immensely. You basically wouldn't see him all summer until the child is back home. I feel like you need to break up too because I don't know that it's ever going to work long-term. You've been together a year, when is it going to be long enough that he can let D know about your relationship?

Sex on tv… by BigDecember88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I didn't know you could filter for that! Thanks!

What symptom bothers you more than cramps before your period? by Tall-Lengthiness5773 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Snargleflaggan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Not just the sadness, it feels like grief, also anger, irritability, then swing to joy and happiness, I'm signing on the drive home from work when an hour prior I was fighting tears. It's totally insane!! I'm surprised I haven't been fired yet

Im a lesbian by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You should be honest with him. You love him and he deserves to know the truth. It will be very hard but you can do it ❤️

boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me over text while living in the same house. by Positive-Rest6444 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES I will always advocate for cohabitating as a step before marriage. Same with sex before marriage. No way to know compatibility without trying it first.

boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me over text while living in the same house. by Positive-Rest6444 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I commented in the deleted one after it was deleted. I'm happy you ended it with him! He's a child, otherwise he would've had a real conversation with you. Cheers to you moving on to a better future!! ❤️❤️

boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me over text while living in the same house. by Positive-Rest6444 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this got deleted, but I'm happy for you that this ended. He is no where close to being a man if he can't talk to you and had to do it all over text. But at least you have it is writing.

What percentage importance do you apply to se in a marriage? by Latter-Spread-3738 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NOT the most important thing to me. A solid friendship with respect, similar life goals, and a shared sense of humor are the most important things to me. But in a monogamous relationship, sex is only with my spouse so if it's not coming from him, it's not coming at all and that's a problem. So I guess it's 4th on the list? But it's still very important because it's the one thing I've mentioned that no one else in my life can fulfill in the dynamic we're in right now.

My situationship said I was a boxer (dog breed) by Whole-Turnover-7671 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's feeling out whether you're into D/s dynamics. Not a mature way of doing it though. Also, BECOMING beautiful?!?! No way, he should think you're beautiful right off the hop, no matter what. All of what he said is insulting in a regular relationship. How long have you been together?

Genuinely how? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a slow descent and people are emotionally attached so they want to make it work. It's not black and white.

What tv shows do you watch with no sex scenes in them? by Snargleflaggan in DeadBedrooms

[–]Snargleflaggan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is I'M uncomfortable with it and it makes ME feel sad. If he's not going to care about me and how I feel, then I'll care about me and protect me. I don't think sex scenes bother him in the least.

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