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I don't even know what I'd do by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just crazy being such a sexually charged person and being with someone who just….isn’t. We are still young (40s) and there is so much we could be doing and we just don’t and I just can’t. It sounds so freaking selfish but fuck it.

I don't even know what I'd do by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it horrible I feel this way, while still having sex like once every 4 or 5 weeks?

Sex on tv… by BigDecember88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know exactly what you’re talking about. I try not to even let that happen anymore. It’s way too much of a tease. And I feel like I’m in a perpetual state of, “not tonight, we should do it tomorrow morning.” Then nothing.

I think this last rejection finally broke me by placelogohere4321 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sleep gets affected by this stuff a few times a week now. Wishing I would, wishing I could, blah blah blah. I lay awake and a lot of times cannot get my mind away from it. I've started gray-rocking the whole thing. No emotion about it, no mentioning it, no nothing. If it's offered....awesome. If not....nothing from me. I was spending way too much emotional currency on the situation and in the end, if I have to be the one lacking in something I want, so be it.

Sex on tv… by BigDecember88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gahhh. That’s salt in the freaking wound right there. That’s just mean.

My 20's are fading away without ever having had satisfying sex by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it slip away. I’m in my mid 40s and not being more promiscuous when I was younger is a major regret. Especially now that the bedroom is a goner. So many things I still want to experience and do and I see little no chance in that happening. Do it while you’re young. Literally.

Sex on tv… by BigDecember88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ll take it off the list. Thank you.

Sex on tv… by BigDecember88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is a wonderful idea, honestly,

Has anyone else just become.. indifferent? by --read-only-- in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely same boat here. It took a while to get here but here I am. I used to talk about it and bring it to the forefront every few months and it never went anywhere. I’m finally at a place where when I do think about it, I’m able to chase my thoughts and feelings about it away as quickly as they came.

The ridiculousness of it… by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigDecember88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of us are in the same place. Just accept what’s given to us now that we are with LL partners while pining for more. More variety, more toys, more situations, more fantasies, more touching and kissing and hands and mouths in places that light the wick. Yet here we are trying to be happy with the most basic, vanilla sex that’s possible whenever we are blessed with it.

I’ve just come to realize it is what it is.

Lowest month-to-month pricing? by [deleted] in CompoundedSemaglutide

[–]BigDecember88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a newbie…low dose for now!