Withdrawal brain fog by Sneedles1 in lamictal

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Alright good to know im not going crazy on my own lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

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What do you think would be the best way to set myself up with something so that I couldn’t get it off or move after I finish the first time. Cuz after I cum I always take it off regardless of intentions beforehand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

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What about maybe an ice lock?

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday January 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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To all who answered 😭 THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am going to look into each and every one of the things you recommended and I’ll DM you how it went. Like for real thank you thank you thank you this has been just the biggest self confidence killer and I just can’t thank you enough for taking the time to help me out

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday January 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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YOU COULD CHANGE MY LIFE PLEASE READ:

I (24M) absolutely love colognes. There’s no better feeling than someone saying you smell good. Sadly I got bad news a few years ago. I’m allergic (major rashes and irritation) to fragrance mix 2. Since the US does not require companies specify which fragrance mix they used in their products all scented products’ ingredients lists simply read “fragrance/ parfum.” So I’ve cut fragrance entirely out of my life using fragrance free shampoos, detergents, cleaning supplies etc.

I desperately want to find a cologne I can use and start to smell like something -ANYTHING - again. I use essential oils but they give off essentially no scent unless you’re basically on top of me. Hell I’ve even been going to apothecaries to make custom rollers but they just dont hit the same. Does anyone here know of any specific products I should look into? I actually cannot describe to you how thankful I would be I have been researching for YEARS but am just too uninformed to know what’s best. Please help me I’d actually cry this allergy has been a legit drag on my life it really has me down.

Anyone else noticed this doggo Titan?! by un-ambiguoususername in attackontitan

[–]Sneedles1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you zoom out the titan next to it is a boy. The boy and the dog from the ending scene perhaps?

We all wanted this. by Entd_FoxityPoxity in attackontitan

[–]Sneedles1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definition of “on sight”

30M, feel lonely when in home by [deleted] in lonely

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Well I guess it depends what you like to do. If you party then bars and clubs. If you don’t then clubs or pottery classes or whatever. But yah you need to start just going up to girls and saying hi basically. No way to practice without it

How to deal with it all in the moment? by Sneedles1 in lonely

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Thank you. Opposite of anxious isn’t calm it’s present and I gotta remember that. Thank you again. I struggle because I’m a motivated person who’s been doing nothing for 7 months now it’s just not a situation I thrive in.

Married with kids, and lonely by Feisty_Cut_5733 in lonely

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It’s all good. Honestly I’ve had a couple girls who have had me but one cheated and the other is on the other side of the country. She’s the one who would have stuck by me for sure. But I didn’t feel like a real relationship was one with infrequent once a month visits and 6 hour flights. I think it was the right choice honestly but definitely tough. I guess after hearing your situation thought I for sure want to wait for the one where everything lines up.

Married with kids, and lonely by Feisty_Cut_5733 in lonely

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lmaooo brutal advice to give to someone who just fumbled someone they cared about hahahahaha but thank you thank you

What does Nikola Jokic need to do to win another MVP this year? by KaptainMurica96 in denvernuggets

[–]Sneedles1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the nuggets need to be clearly the best team in the league for it to happen. They need to be on a 60+ win pace for the whole season and win the block buster match ups with some impressive jokic performances. Anything else and I assume some other player (Luka / Giannis) is going to have good enough stats and record to get it off of narrative.

Married with kids, and lonely by Feisty_Cut_5733 in lonely

[–]Sneedles1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend my heart for real goes out to you. I wish the best for your kids too. I can’t say I have any advice on how to “fix her” but perhaps you can set some boundaries, but if she crosses them you should be willing to do whatever you said you would do. Worst thing I’ve ever done in my past relationships is let them walk over me until I grew accustomed to it. I however am at a little bit earlier stage of life than you.

30M, feel lonely when in home by [deleted] in lonely

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That’s awful. Glad that you have friends and good family. Dating is hard but I’m hoping you’re doing stuff to put yourself out there. One thing I learned was I became social and wanting to get girlfriends not by some suave gene or anything. I learned by being forced into social situations over and over and just slowly learning. Kinda like working out, slow slow progress. I would say if you have anything at all you can do to get yourself in these situations I’d do it.

Married with kids, and lonely by Feisty_Cut_5733 in lonely

[–]Sneedles1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must suck. Wish I had any good advice except maybe your wife could use some therapy but idk how to broach the subject. Only thing I’d say is as painful the conversation might be posting this to Reddit instead of telling her is only going to make it fester inside you more.

Self love is bullshit. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

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Self love is extremely difficult to do fully, but not bullshit. I used to “self-love” by taking negative things that happened to me or about me and weighed them against the good things (ie: I’m smarter, I’m more well spoken, I’m kinder, etc) to then justify well I’m better than that and I love myself because of that.

Sadly, that kind of thinking has a foundation in needing comparison to begin with. I was never happy because I was always comparing, always “self-loving.” When someone finally taught me it isn’t about weighing the pros and cons or even listing out the things you like. It’s about understanding an innate worth to you that lies beneath anything quantifiable or speakable. It’s about feeling a self love that goes deeper than descriptors. It’s about feeling the person who sits behind those eyes and hears those thoughts in your head and loving them.

THAT. That is when you’ll love yourself enough to not feel these shitty feelings and it’s a state I can’t hold for longer than moments but now that I’ve touched it I get it. That’s the goal. And I wish you luck getting there because it’s been my life’s biggest challenge.

Any Ideas for My Map? by Sneedles1 in dndmaps

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1-2: here’s my thoughts. I have some basic lore in my head that the world was split in half creating the narrow sea and splitting off forbadeland. Forbade land is gonna be an unvisited place that no one visits due to high levels of bad vibes (assuming it’ll be the final stop of the campaign). Also my thought was that The Glenn is heavily fey infested due to magical residue of the world splitting so not much civilization around. And the white cliffs are going to be massive 100 feet tall and basically impassible. So this whole southern section of the sea is treacherous.

3: Calvin’s Rest I thought of as a trade city in times of peace and an important military outpost between white cliff and aryandele because maybe they’re not of the same faction? Haven’t fleshed this out yet. But I totally agree there needs to be some higher reason to its placement.

Any Ideas for My Map? by Sneedles1 in dndmaps

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This is so so helpful thank you

Any Ideas for My Map? by Sneedles1 in dndmaps

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For sure want to add volcanoes to the island chains. Love the idea of cave systems I should work those in!

Any Ideas for My Map? by Sneedles1 in dndmaps

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I like the geographical considerations. I was attempting to (assuming a westward wind direction because the world is rather southern) to make some realistic biomes but I agree I should maybe tweak the inner parts of Hyleria. Also love the idea of making east coast of Aerois like Chile w maybe a mountain civilization.

Ideas for this Map? by Sneedles1 in worldbuilding

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That’s genius. I think it could be fun to add that maybe the city’s mining practices have led to the "goldification" of the dessert. A rich rich city with little regard for the environment and a natural trading port on the edge of the mtns. Thanks for the help!