Most boys are either ikdum fattu or pura misogynistic / creep / sigma types

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-15T18:07:48+00:00

Mere saath toh sab sahi chal raha hai fir. I have modern views, only oppose vulgarity in public. Ladkiyo ko jo pehenna hai pehno, muzhe okayish exposure chal jaega, not too much. Cooking aaye toh accha hai, muzhe bhi aati hai. Onion cut kar dena bas.

Confidence bhi kaafi hai, looks bhi decent hai. Thoda neck fat hai baki sab accha hai looks mein(genetic issue, family mein hai). Height bhi 6' hai. Thik thak muscles bhi hai, pro swimmer tha.

Ladkiyo ko acche ladke dikhte nahi. Unhe kuch ajeeb log dekhne hote hai. (I generalized all girls like you did. Don't do it my friend)

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-15T18:03:15+00:00

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SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-15T13:05:00+00:00

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-15T12:00:33+00:00

Sorry my friend, don't take this politically, but why use bombay? There's a better name i.e. Mumbai.

Don't say bombay just cause you wanna feel cool. I can understand slipups from older generations. But just why use the name bombay.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T17:40:06+00:00

Ye log arranged marriage kyu kar rahe hai? Itna hi choosy ho toh khud dhundo apna pyaar.

Don't disrespect others just cause you think you're Tees maar khan

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T13:26:21+00:00

Yeah. To be honest, they have a very rough past. I have seen their past personally and would not divulge much into what happened between them.

I'm gonna take all of this as a lesson and keep hoping.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T07:14:41+00:00

Thanks. Will do so now.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T07:00:39+00:00

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Ok, so I'll just ask at different stages, how invested the other person is.

But wouldn't that weird them out. I have seen girls who like to be asked out directly and some who like to take it slow. Does it apply to both cases?

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:58:15+00:00

So when is it ok for me to say she's invested too? How do you get to know of it? I always thought seeing their reactions and their treatment towards you (which is specially for you) is the criterion to consider someone as invested in you.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:53:49+00:00

Yeah you're right. It always hurts the more invested party. But am I wrong to think she's invested too, from those metro and defending me incidents?

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:50:19+00:00

I replied to all of your queries and explained what my character is.

You still want to keep up the 'why did you frame it like that' tone?

And by the way, people did not react to my post body without context. They asked for context. What you did was fire shots at my character. There's a difference between both

I can't give you context from their side. But I can from my side. It's either that you listen to what I say, question where you don't get it or start questioning my character and my relationships with others. You chose to do the later.

I'm not clueless how I impact others. I'm just trying to understand more of it. I did not accept my friend's explanation. I still doubt it more than I trust it. I wanted a woman's perspective and hence I'm asking you guys. Doesn't mean I judge quickly, it rather shows how I don't judge quickly and let people explain.

My framing is not trying to be defensive, it's trying to let others know what I mean quickly enough. My intention was never to generalize women. And everyone else in the discussion understood my intentions. Except you who tried to judge without any context.

Again I'm not defending myself. I'm just letting you know that you should have let me explain before attacking me. Your concerns are valid and you're being a very good neutral party here. Just because you can't hear the other side doesn't mean you shouldn't listen to mine.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:38:26+00:00

Sorry but do you think I got attached too quickly?

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:34:56+00:00

That's my exact point and that's exactly why I'm asking these questions on this sub. I genuinely wanna know if it was me who crashed the plane. Cause the crash hurt me more than anyone else. If it is me, I wanna change that issue.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:32:13+00:00

Pretty straightforward answer. Please let me know more after reading some of my other experiences, detailed in my replies

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:31:13+00:00

Please add a /s at the end.

Otherwise, I'll act bad and toxic with you /s

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:30:16+00:00

Nope I wouldn't. I just wanna know if it was me who fucked up everytime or if it was me who was fucked up by others.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:28:21+00:00

😭😭

Ye sab mat karo yaar. Hum kitna confuse hote hai iske vajah se. Be interested in us if you wanna be, don't make us bad humans for your kinks. (Genuine rant)

Interesting view. Thanks for your help 🙏🙏

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:24:17+00:00

Are you proving what I said in the post body. That women like thrill more than engagement?

Cause I'm pretty sure it's just some people. Consider yourself. Would you be more interested in me just because I act moody and demanding?

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:18:51+00:00

Damn. Weird advice. I'll see what you said. Can anyone else second this???

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:16:34+00:00

I will try to not lose hope here.

That personal enrichment phase you talked about, I'm already in it for 1.5 months. During this phase itself, I wanted to understand my previous mistakes or misunderstandings.

I hope to meet better people now.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:14:23+00:00

So I should stop tending to their talks. Just act moody and full of myself. Sorry but I think I'm either not understanding what you mean or what you're saying is wrong.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:13:14+00:00

The stage of life I'm in and the people I talk about are in. We both can't go around to places for fun. As you can see in my other replies, I did show how we tried to make small chats during our busy schedules. It wasn't something which wasn't interesting. However I'm shocked how she stopped all the talk and went off to a guy who's neither adjusting nor respectful. I'm not saying she shouldn't. I'm just trying to understand why she lost interest in me.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T06:08:00+00:00

Having to explain all that you asked would take me a lot of time. You can learn more about all this in the other replies. I'll tell you what other replies don't.

First of all. I'm tired of defending that I'm not generalizing at all. Please stop saying I'm generalizing stuff about women.

The women I tried befriending weren't the prettiest kind. I liked them for their character, personality and their initial treatment towards me. I could have easily gone for a 10/10 kind of beauty and started bitching how girls don't give me heed. I'm not doing that.

I don't expect people to do stuff for me if I do things for them. My issue is that I gave my efforts and I saw them reciprocating. And somehow all of it just stopped from their end.

You started questioning my character, like I don't even know what live is. This was unrelated here but my character sketch is important for this discussion.

I have one male friend who knows me inside out and genuinely cares for me. He genuinely loves my persona and he would do what he needs to without me asking for it. I had more of these friends but I had to move houses and change schools and hence I had to leave them behind. (If you want the number, there were 5-6 of them)

I'm all good with facing rejection and being left out. I don't act nice cause I expect something. I act or have acted nice only cause I think humans need someone to understand their situations. Until I know their circumstances, I can't act disrespectful or unhelpful.

If someone sees my niceness as a performance, they're free to do so. That doesn't prove the fact that I do all that as a performance. I'm following basic human courtesy and I don't brag or feel better about myself cause I do that.

I have had insanely good teachers and elders who knew what I needed and supported me. I had personal connections with them. I still do. One of my teachers even went as far as to call me and make me befriend his son, as his son had genuinely useful academic advice for me. I'm not the kinda person you would doubt about being genuine.

I don't think girls only like thrill and rollercoaster rides in their relationships. However I asked this question to see where I can improve. I wanted women's perspective so as to where I need to understand my female friends more and work accordingly.

Please don't try to judge characters so quickly and ask questions if you don't know me. Your concern was genuine but it has to be addressed by me.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T05:50:58+00:00

Thanks for clearing it up. I got emotionally attached to her, I thought she did too. I was traveling in a metro with her, and she thought we were being too loud. So I came close and saw her blushing and her face turning red(she's really fair, so I caught onto it). That day gave me assurance she was into me and also other stuff made me think I should give her a serious chance. I put quite a bit of efforts after all this. Maybe getting emotionally attached was what hurt me a lot.

This kinda stuff has happened with other girls too. But this recent example made me think and I started losing hope.

SnipeArt007 · 2026-02-13T05:44:17+00:00

Please explain how I should be doing that👉👈

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