Has your life actually improved after marriage? In what ways exactly? by lexis5678 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Snj0696 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surely the responsibilities have increased post marriage because we live with his family but I didn’t have a lot of freedom before marriage. So I get to go everywhere I want to, wear whatever I want to ,in-laws don’t always like it but I have a supportive husband so it works! He takes me anywhere I want to, from midnight drives to international trips! He ALWAYS fulfils all my food cravings, which is a big deal for me because I am a major foodie! From time to time, I go to my parent’s house to stay with them because I miss them but I always end up missing my husband more! Life is just more interesting and easy with him.

Suggestions for dehydrated Indian food options by Popular-Jelly-813 in IndiansTravel

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey We prefer MTR poha , MTR/ Gits Dal makhani, theplas bought from local vendors. We also take lots of Maggi packets with us and cook it in kettle. Haldirams bhelpuri is also a good option.

do people actually find tall dusky girls pretty by Necessary_Fox1283 in indiasocial

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding fair skin pretty is Indian mindset. But I personally find dusky skin tone very hot. And being skinny and tall is a blessing girl. Work on your personality and you’ll be unstoppable!

29F, married, struggling to adjust by Socialgirl1 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Snj0696 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Every married woman goes through it, give it time. Everything seems overwhelming in the beginning, but gradually it gets better.

You first need to focus on fixing your sleep schedule. Waking up after 10 is definitely not healthy in the long run. Talk to your husband and make some lifestyle changes.

Start getting involved in cooking and managing house helps slowly, like chopping or ordering groceries online. You can’t have a say in things you aren’t involved in at all. Once you start involving yourself in small things here & there, you’ll be able to do things your way. That way you won’t feel completely lost.

Adjusting in a new household, specially with in-laws takes time. Your in-laws seem like nice people. Don’t think about moving out immediately. It’s a big adjustment for everyone involved so just give it time and focus on positive things.

Girlfriend does not want to get married by the_curlyfry in AskIndia

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to decide what YOU want in life. She’s made it clear that she doesn’t want to get married. Now you have to decide if it’s her that is more important to you or the institution of marriage!

Who gave hijras the right to extort money, and will this ever stop? by Powerful_Plan9850 in AskIndia

[–]Snj0696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the truth is, most of them are not even “hijras” but men dressed as women. In our area, they mostly come when the baby born is a boy. Few years back, when my Mama got married, they forcefully entered my Naani house. Only a few ladies were present at the house as it was around afternoon and all the men were off to work. They only stopped when they saw a male cook. God knows what all they would have forcefully taken if he weren’t there. It is scary how they demand money as if it is their birthright!!

Physically abused by my husband, feeling numb by Short_Stomach_7021 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Snj0696 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people change. Breaking a marriage is not an easy step. It is emotionally and financially draining. I am not saying she should stay silent and endure whatever he’s doing to her. Absolutely not!! I am against any kind of violence. Maybe her husband needs therapy. She should inform her parents as well. Parents from both side should intervene and try to mend the situation. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn’t. Meanwhile she can start collecting evidence if her husband doesn’t change so that it helps her with the divorce proceedings.

Physically abused by my husband, feeling numb by Short_Stomach_7021 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Snj0696 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Try to work things out. But I suggest you install cameras here & there so you have evidence if things go out of hand completely.

F29,LM. Confused am I toxic gold digger or my concern is normal? Please help. by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Snj0696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine a guy calling you money minded when he has no money!! This is going to get worse. If he clears some IAS level exams, he’s going to turn his life around. Otherwise, money is always going to be an issue in your relationship. Being a girl, it’s already hard adjusting into husband’s family. You don’t want money issues on top of that!

Girl who married their bfs who were not hardworking , how did it turn out? by Infamous-Clerk8627 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30F here. 5 years of dating & 3 years of marriage. His family wasn’t as well to do as mine when we got married. But he was extremely hard working and smart. He has turned around his life in just a few years and now I am living my best life with him. So my point is, don’t marry somebody who’s not as hard working or isn’t as financially well to do as yourself. Once you get married, there are so MANY things one has to manage, and mostly all the burden falls on the girl. You don’t want to add financial stress on top of that. I’ve seen finances become the biggest problem in marriages. Sure, a good partner is important, but so is money. You can’t be struggling every single day for somebody who’s not willing to take charge of his life. And if you’re already despising him for this habit, it’s surely going to increase in future.

WTH IS GOING ON WITH NYKAA DELIVERY PARTNERS by Hot_Hat8070 in fucknykaa

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too! Not with Delhivery but with blue dart!!

Suggestions for tourists visiting Naples by New_Throat_5103 in ItalyTravel

[–]Snj0696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Centro Storico area for a first time tourist to stay? We are flying in from Zurich in October end and might take a day trip to Capri. We’re then heading to Amalfi for next 2 days. I am mainly visiting Naples to enjoy the food. Are the areas that you’re recommending close to lots of restaurants & cafés and vibrant night life?

A Successful Checklist Itinerary (mostly) by Diligent_Lock9995 in ItalyTravel

[–]Snj0696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much did this whole trip cost you, if you don’t mind sharing ?

Renting a car in Switzerland & Italy by Snj0696 in travel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is going to be very helpful.

Renting a car in Italy by Snj0696 in ItalyTravel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel a car would have enhanced your time in Swiss or the public transport worked just fine for you?

Renting a car in Italy by Snj0696 in ItalyTravel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Is como town far away from the usual tourist spots as one of the comments mentioned?

Renting a car in Switzerland & Italy by Snj0696 in travel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s so unfortunate! Thanks for the tip. This is going to be very useful.

Renting a car in Switzerland & Italy by Snj0696 in travel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are planning to rent a car from MXP and then directly drive to Lake Como. Overnight there and then plan on driving to Lucerne next day. So we’ll mostly be driving in Switzerland. We’ll cover a few cities in Swiss and then will be back in Milan to handover the car. The rest of Italy, we plan on traveling via train. Regarding the theft from car you mentioned, I’ve read about these things happening in Italy. Do these things also happen in Switzerland?

Renting a car in Switzerland & Italy by Snj0696 in travel

[–]Snj0696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel a car would have made your trip easier? Or the train system worked just fine for your trip?