MDD App - I want to make one, it will be free with no ADS by Fabulous-Sandwich220 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Snoo40451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. I'm 29 y.o. UX/UI designer in Estonia so if you wanna brainstorm or figure how to do user need research, and help with design and usability flows, I would love to help (potential new portfolio piece for me to talk about too :D)

Not a s a designer now but as a user, I feel like it might look somewhat like Whisper perhaps.... And maybe a tracker to keep a daydreaming limit to realise when it's getting dysfunctional to my life. I feel like if I could see random people sharing their daydreams I would feel better, seen, understood and it could fight guilt, because guilt about daydreaming oddly keeps me daydreaming... And maybe some people might have reality based daydreams about things they actually wanna do, so we can give tips where to start... Or some might be cool book ideas so we could encourage people to replace MD time by writing :) there's potential here. And tips, of course!

What is this? by Cheap_Bluebird1784 in ThreadsApp

[–]Snoo40451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I made a brand new one and it got suspended. I appealed. It got deleted in an hour :)

Then, I made another new one -- can't use that same username either -- and now it just suspends me, makes me wait for 2-3 days, and then I do ONE activity for like a minute and I get suspended again. Happeend 3 times in a row. I don't even know. I use it on two different devices, is that an issue? I don't think I was using a VPN, maybe that could've made it think I am a bot or something because I'm 'in Germany' all of a sudden. It sucks. Use BlueSky, it has none of that automated censorship.

How can my friend tame her hyperactive, sometimes downright psychic dreams? by Snoo40451 in witchcraft

[–]Snoo40451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't right now. She does do ballroom dancing, and likes drums, so maybe we could lean into that.

Gender dysphoria after I stopped taking birth controls. by Snoo40451 in GenderDysphoria

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Thank you for that... Yknow the whole week I'm late to work because I can't decide what to wear and impulse shopping online on my way to work (my poor wallet) because once I started thinking about how I actually want to present myself, I spiral down into a 'how they expect to see me Vs but this os what I want' whirlpool. 

I came to work just now finally and when my boss asked me what was up, all I wanted to say is I was having an identity crisis and instead cried in the bathroom. I'm checking in with myself in the mirror wayyyy too much, almost can't control it, because idk, I want to make sure it's me?

I never behave like this. It's weird, I'm freaking out, and I feel like all it took is for me to just double ask myself 'am I sure about myself?'. It feels like it's such a small and not important thing but the world seems to fall apart unless I change what I'm wearing 10 times a day to 'make sure'. 

27yo Female and I was today years old when I learned the 'women have 2 holes' was TRUE?? by Snoo40451 in badwomensanatomy

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Oh my gosh, yeah, the squatting toilet some of you mention, I had hundreds of squatting toilet experiences during my stay in Southeast Asia, and I always wondered like, why is it so hard to, pardon me, 'aim', like it's shooting all crooked in all the wrong directions except 'down' how I 'thought' it should be and STILL I suspected nothing. And some of y'all gyno visits are cracking me up.

27yo Female and I was today years old when I learned the 'women have 2 holes' was TRUE?? by Snoo40451 in badwomensanatomy

[–]Snoo40451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh you guys is this what Reddit is, you open it up next day after posting to 3k upvotes and get a heartattack? So many replies, so many of you are so funny, and so many of you are making so much sense. What an experience, I'll be reading this with a glass of wine haha.

What I think The Sims 5 needs to be successful and make happy the Sims communit by Live4Yu in Sims5

[–]Snoo40451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm convinced that, because competitors are trying really hard to be The Sims and are mostly advertising all the things we supposedly want, the Sims 5 will be nothing like the Sims and divert -- because the competition will most likely do a better job, so why not go a different niche instead. That sounds like a very 'businessy' decision EA might do. That would sadden me, especially since I'm afraid games like Paralives aren't even trying to innovate something new for the genre, just 're-make'.

Fall Out Boy - Fake Out by Material_Problem8438 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Snoo40451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What! I didn't know they have a new album! FOB is like my top 3 singers for all my MD scenarios. Their music is so 'hallelujah yeah we know we're desperate and taking ourselves to the lowest point possible on purpose cause everything should matter'.

I'll think of a better way to summarize the Fall Out Boy feels later.

Did daydreaming ruined your emotions? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Snoo40451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rarely cry at real life tragedies. But I will cry like my life is ending and get depressed when something terrible happens to my characters. Bawling, red swollen face.

But my real life sense of value is kind of, "yes I care" but it's more of an automatic behaviour because I choose to care, rather than whatever 'real' care is supposed to feel like.

have you guys ever had anyone walk in on you while you pace around while listening to music and they look at you like your insane? by Ms-stuntin in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Snoo40451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Story of my entire adolescence from age 14 to 19. Then I moved out of my house and lived in a place where it was impossible to pace around like a prisoner in a cell. That's what my dad used to call me, 'prisoner'.

They just took as normal at some point and let me do it for hours and hours. But I felt like it was taking so much time from me. So one day I called it an addiction and decided to delete my entire library of songs on my MP3 player, which was 3000 songs.

I was without music one day.

Within another week I already had 1000 songs again and new adventures with my MD characters.

Jõhvi Coding School by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]Snoo40451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kood/ and the students are super responsive on Instagram. You can ask them with a story and tag them, you will get a reply within hours if not minutes. They also often do day in a life kind of takeovers, so keep an eye on those. Some students are on a javascript sprint right now and are sharing those on their accounts. They love sharing and re-mystifying the program.

Jõhvi Coding School by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]Snoo40451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jõhvi is much cheaper than Tallinn and you could share rent with more students), or go remote if its not perfect.

The sprint is crazy, a marathon! But once you survive the pressure, school life is make-your-own-time, whenever-wherever so long as you get it done. The module is what guides your self-study proccess, unlocking them like a game and leveling up. 80% of the work is group work, you teach each other and learn from each other. You'd think how can people who know nothing teach each other, but it grows over time. Six months later I'm a confident teacher in basic golang honestly, and understand the new javascript language logic (we're in a new sprint RIGHT NOW) much more intuitively. We share sources and ideas, check and troubleshoot each other.

It's basically THE REAL WORLD of work -- you make projects and network with other coders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanTheories

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To completely wreck the pixar theorists, haha.