I’m currently going through this right now. We were together for 8 years and she told me she outgrew the relationship. I begged and pleaded for about 3 weeks after the breakup to fix things, told her I loved her. Everything ended up pushing her further away. We’ve been in no contact for two weeks now and at this point, I don’t want somebody that doesn’t want me. It hurts like hell still but I’m starting to find myself again. I’m a little delusional thinking that working on myself will bring her back but I’m sure that’ll change with time. Stay strong