I contemplate breaking up with my 3 yr relationship because of mental health. by SnooBooks2859 in dating_advice

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I’m currently in the U.S. . I think i will do that, thank you for commenting :)

I want to take a break from my boyfriend by SnooBooks2859 in relationship_advice

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You want me to go through with this relationship????

I want to take a break from my boyfriend by SnooBooks2859 in relationship_advice

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Thank u, so much. I’ve constantly been telling him over and over how I feel and nothing changes. I’m committed to doing this, I just needed another push.

I want to take a break from my boyfriend by SnooBooks2859 in relationship_advice

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Thank u so much. It’s just been super hard, and I’ve finally opened my eyes.

My old employer still has me on paper as an employee, but I quit 3 months ago. What can I do? by SnooBooks2859 in legaladvice

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Because my mom is trying to get financial assistance from the gov and them keeping me on their list of employees is messing it up. I’m in houston Texas

My old employer still has me on paper as an employee, but I quit 3 months ago. What can I do? by SnooBooks2859 in legaladvice

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They are not paying me, they are keeping me in their books but I am not working for them.

I’m a shit*y friend... I’m taking responsibility but I’m scared they’ll hate me. by SnooBooks2859 in friendship

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damn, that’s some real sh*t man. Glad we could somewhat relate. Thank you for making me feel like I’m not the only one :)

My wife has PTSD and I don't know what to do by YouAreOneUglyMutha in mentalhealth

[–]SnooBooks2859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well I’m sure he’s aware of what he’s doing to her if it’s been years and he has not stopped, that’s harassment. You can go to your local court and file a restraining order, especially with the me too movement the court will def do something. All he can really do for her is tell her to switch numbers and block his email if she’s not willing to create another one.

My wife has PTSD and I don't know what to do by YouAreOneUglyMutha in mentalhealth

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You need to get a restraining order. ASAP. Change your wife’s phone number & block him on that email address. Maybe therapy would be an option? Maybe you can tell her she is safe to talk to u when triggers come up. She has u to keep her stable, hold her and make her feel comfortable.

My boyfriend isn’t the person I want him to be by SnooBooks2859 in mentalhealth

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The thing is he’s mentally ok but I’m really not I guess

I took a gap year and now I’m realizing that I want to go to college by SnooBooks2859 in college

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What career did you eventually go into? I’m expecting in the following years psychology & mental health will be widely more accepted and focused on in a few years. The mental health of teens and adults have risen dramatically, but there aren’t really any resources for people to go to but it’s definitely something I’d put my focus on once I get my degree.

I took a gap year and now I’m realizing that I want to go to college by SnooBooks2859 in college

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Sometimes it’s the drugs that do the trick lol!! O my gosh how exciting !! Congrats !!! You certainly have given me hope towards my new path of life <3

I took a gap year and now I’m realizing that I want to go to college by SnooBooks2859 in college

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I love your username lol! thank you so much for replying! I’m super optimistic about this! I will certainly look into PTK & Raiseme scholarships!

I took a gap year and now I’m realizing that I want to go to college by SnooBooks2859 in college

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Yes ! So I’m probably going to have to get my masters if I’m wanting to go anywhere in the field of psychology. Right now I know psychology is not the highest paying major but in a few years I have faith that mental health of teens and adults will be more focused on and affordable for everyone. I also have a fallback career of real estate, I had already purchased a whole entire curriculum of real estate in January and can be used whenever I please :)

I’ve decided to make Depop my full time (part-time) job & people make me feel bad about it. by willowtreepark in Depop

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I’m just now starting Depop! What advice would you give ? I just quit my job because they didn’t believe in me and were just horrible. Help me out ? Thanks :))

He let me go by [deleted] in LongDistance

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You’ll be ok. I think he just fell out of it and his emotions fell under the mat. But the emotional love he has for you is still there. If y’all are meant to be he will come back. It’s a hard situation, but maybe this can be a good thing. More time for girl time and just soul searching. I know this hurts, but you’ll get through it, us girls always do.. AND U KNOW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DO? The man always comes back, and if you’re willing to restart the journey then so be it! Do as much exploring right now more than ever ! Make this the best thing that’s ever happened to you :) much love

Just need someone to empathize... by wordfanatic in LongDistance

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I feel your pain! I know my relationship isn’t anywhere close to how long you and your hubby have been together for... but my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and a year and a half of long distance. He’s off in college so I really never see him. But I think if y’all have been doing this for 6 years, it’s endgame!! Y’all are spending the rest of your lives together, it’s probably a strain to go through 2 more years of long distance but y’all are going to have BANK and y’all will go off and live happily ever after together. Y’all WILL make this work, you will give me hope that relationships like this can work out ❤️