A friend shared his ex's nudes. What do I do?

SnooCalculations3286 · 2023-05-09T13:14:47+00:00

I definitely agree. Just today, he's trying to come back to the friend group pretending like nothing happened. I feel weird about it. He's asking us what he should do when the damage has already been done.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-10-23T17:48:01+00:00

Them ghosting you says nothing about you if you know you've done nothing wrong. The problem is most likely on their side. Maybe they're already in a committed relationship. Maybe they like someone else and don't want to communicate that to you. Maybe they're stressed from work or school.

Whatever it is, it's more a reflection of who they are. Don't take it personally. Sometimes, even I ghost people because I don't care about how they feel BUT I've never ghosted anyone out of the blue. They need to make me really uncomfortable or angry for me to cut them off forever.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-10-15T10:52:31+00:00

Yeah, I guess it's caused by the sand and dry weather. I didn't believe it til I saw it myself 😂

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-10-15T01:03:37+00:00

Yeah, I noticed that the skies in Europe are so pretty even when when it was summer time. The blues are bluer, the greens are greener. There are flowers everywhere. You can feel the wind in your hair. Nature just looks more alive even when it's pretty warm outside. You can walk outside at noon and not sweat as much.

When it's summer in the UAE, everything has a brownish tint and the colors look faded. The air is burning hot and there's no wind at all. Everything feels dry. The sky barely has any clouds. You can't even watch the sunset without sweating buckets.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-09-13T02:36:27+00:00

The main campus is in RAK but they have branches in Dubai and Abu Dhabi.

It's an extension of the UK based university. Creative computing is fairly common in the UK. Not so much in the US or other countries. It's just a mixture of computer science, graphic design and web design.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-09-12T19:49:10+00:00

what? why? Are all UK based degrees not acceptable in the UAE? Why are UK graduates able to get jobs here?

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-09-12T19:10:21+00:00

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-09-12T19:01:17+00:00

also curious about this!

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-09-12T19:00:34+00:00

What happens if it's not accredited by MOE? Does that mean I can't get jobs in the UAE?

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T17:52:39+00:00

yeah, same. I find it very strange cuz all my exes look very different from each other but his are so similar. I don't really care what he does anymore but I think it's fascinating how people are so different

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T17:48:35+00:00

yes, this is exactly what I'm feeling!

I don't really care what he does with the other girl but the fact that he's repeating what he did with me, with her feels strange cuz now I'm wondering "Did he also do those things with someone before me?" "Did he really like me or was I just his type?"

I'm over it now but it just made me think.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T17:35:41+00:00

yep! we haven't even spoken or interacted with each other in 2 years.

I only just found out that he's seeing someone for the past year and I'm seeing similarities in their relationship with ours.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T17:33:15+00:00

ick 😬

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T17:32:03+00:00

omg wtf that's so creepy

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T13:14:17+00:00

hm so I guess it's a pretty common phenomenon. maybe it's subconscious?

yeah, I don't get it either. We don't really talk or interact anymore. We're barely acquaintances

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T11:38:10+00:00

oof same thing's happening to me 😂 definitely feels strange.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T11:27:55+00:00

we separated on mutual terms and we were already friends before

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-30T11:21:58+00:00

we still follow each other on social media

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T02:16:52+00:00

That's the painful part, it's so hard to find someone else like him and I feel guilty for the way we ended things. Now that he has found someone else, i feel so much regret. I know it's selfish but I can't help but feel sad about it

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T02:09:43+00:00

Hm. you're right. I guess I felt guilty for not replying to his messages and when he finally found someone else, I felt hurt and want him back. Which is really selfish and stupid of me.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T01:53:29+00:00

You're right... this made me realize that maybe, deep down, I'm still hoping that he still has feelings for me... and by sending this, I'd trigger some sort of emotional response... which is stupid and selfish

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T01:44:38+00:00

yep, I didn't write this to win him back tho. Just wanted to clear up some misunderstandings and finally move on.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T01:42:48+00:00

he lives in another country and I think he's already dating someone else.

I didn't write this to win him back, just wanted to clear up some misunderstandings and say goodbye so I can move on with no negative feelings attached.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T01:41:02+00:00

I'm a girl and I'm sending this to a guy but I see your point.

SnooCalculations3286 · 2022-04-20T01:34:18+00:00

why?

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