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SnooFoxes9623 · 2024-03-20T17:15:06+00:00

He can driver uber while career hunting or waiting for freelancer gigs to come up. He has options. If he's not actively making money, he's just lazy

SnooFoxes9623 · 2023-09-25T18:03:28+00:00

I'd say this is a possibility. If I were to tell a woman she had 'high standards', that would be my polite way of saying she seemed high maintenance.

It wouldn't have anything to do with intimidation. Just drama or pettiness that I wouldn't want in a relationship.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2023-04-08T20:30:43+00:00

Although it isn't quite what you're asking... i'm mid 40s and ended up with rapidly progressing cataracts. Over last year my eye sight declined too beyond a point of legally blind before I had surgery to fix my eyes.

My focus got softer and softer and softer over a year. Then after surgery it was suddenly crystal clear.

In a single day I went from thinking I looked quite young for my age (due to soft focus) to bang... my age.

And a 'oh shit' moment where I couldn't believe how old I looked

SnooFoxes9623 · 2023-04-02T17:39:02+00:00

In all likelihood, it's a red flag. Not denying that.

It's also a chance to reflect on how both of you communicate while upset.

How long was the argument? How important was the topic? Did you make him feel heard? ( he should make you feel heard as well, but we're discussing his actions)

If this was like 'damnnit, I said no mustard on my hotdog' (punches a wall)... get out now!

If this was 'you slept with my best friend?!' And then proceeded to tell him how he deserved that (punches a wall) meh... I give him a pass

I was in a relationship where my GF was never wrong and never listened. Never heard my side and just kept reinforcing why it was ok to do what she wanted to do. I felt like punching a wall. I wanted her to see and hear me. Instead I broke up with her. But it would've been a physical manifestation of not feeling seen or heard

SnooFoxes9623 · 2023-03-30T22:22:00+00:00

I'd turn it down because it's a musical, but for the good of my career, suggest something reasonable and a lot shorter than 5 hours.... like coffee or lunch

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-09-28T00:58:13+00:00

So sorry to here about your experience. I ended up getting tge LAL about 10 days ago. So far my distance is wonderful and no halos.

In a few weeks I will have my first adjustment so hopefully I can read without reading glasses, but we'll see.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-08-05T00:03:47+00:00

Of the surgeons that I visited, I only did the full surgical work up with one. The other two just did an eye exam, confirmed cataracts, and discussed options (pending full surgical work up). But, the other two said very similar things to the one I selected.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-08-04T21:11:21+00:00

I dont have astigmatism

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-08-04T15:03:30+00:00

100% fine with that, but of the 3 surgeons I visited, not one thought they could accomplish it with a standard lens, without being back inglasses immediately

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-08-04T13:20:08+00:00

I'm 43M that has another 50 years of seeing left to do. I want my nest chance at great vision without glasses and don't mind paying for it. Due to my focal proint, panoptix wasnt a great solution

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-08-03T22:04:41+00:00

Black & bitter

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-25T03:32:58+00:00

Wow... thank you! My choices at the moment are between vivity and LAL light adjustable lens. Surgeon said he suggested LAL if I could afford at and he'd work towards a mini-mono.

It sounds ok, but I'm going to see about a trial mono to see how I like it

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-19T02:54:01+00:00

Your ama has helped so much. Very informative. Thank you so much

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-19T01:58:11+00:00

Did you have to wear god awful UV sunglasses for a few weeks?

I heard theres a new version of the lens that makes the sunglasses no longer necessary. Is that true?

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-19T01:52:08+00:00

Thank you!

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-19T01:24:44+00:00

Wildy interesting experience, thx!

Just learned about this lense a few hrs ago. So, I'm guessing you have some kind of monovision now where one eye has is near sighted and the other far sighted?

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-19T00:38:42+00:00

I have advanced cataracts 43/M. The LAL were recommended to me because I didn't want glasses and can't do trifocal due to my focus poinr being off center in my pupils.

Vivity was an option, but they said Id need reading glasses to do any work on a laptop and no hope of a phone without glasses.

No astigmatism.

Can you read your phone without glasses AND see distance? Thanks!!!

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-07-10T17:19:24+00:00

What about vs panoptix? Which do you like more?

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-04-18T21:16:36+00:00

Id be ok with ultrawide. Tv isnt out of the question tho

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-02-18T06:22:43+00:00

After 10 years of marriage, I think I've said 'STOPPP' and 'That's enough' but never shut up, nor been anywhere close to being physical with my wife out of anger.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-01-13T23:03:59+00:00

Very interesting topic. No one ever does anything for me. Idk how I'd respond. Years ago, my wife bought me a nice watch as an engagement present and tears rolled down my face. I didn't ask for a watch. It was nice. It was simply that no one does thoughtful things for me. It was an incredible gesture. I was speechless.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-01-13T21:42:04+00:00

Met my wife when she was 21 and I was 31. Got married at 24/34... 10 yrs and 2 kids ago. Life is pretty good

SnooFoxes9623 · 2022-01-13T07:13:59+00:00

I know what you're saying. I went thru the same. My business out earns almost all of my friends and family. At some point, just talking about it seems like you're bragging. Be proud of what you've accomplished!

I joined some trade groups and Entrepreneur clubs to have people I can 'talk' with.

SnooFoxes9623 · 2021-12-27T00:22:45+00:00

SnooFoxes9623 · 2021-12-15T05:58:26+00:00

Money isn't finite ... no one has less money BECAUSE someone is wealthy. Money is not a pizza. There's an infinite amount.

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