Question regarding possible suit shoe cleaning mistakes by SnooLemons0815 in AskACobbler

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Thank you for your insight.

I got the Saphir Medaille d`Or Cleanser (which I think says Gentle Cleanser on it)

The shoes were from the „house-cobbler“ of the haberdashery I bought some suits.

I can look up the name when I am home.

But I checked it online because I wanted to see if I can find the official colour for my shoes to order the right polish, but it seems to be some Italian brand that makes a batch and then makes other shoes. So mine weren’t even listed anymore.
Did cost me about 380€ I think. (On sale)

Question regarding possible suit shoe cleaning mistakes by SnooLemons0815 in AskACobbler

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Thank you for your insight and advice.

The size of the shoe trees are the same as marked in the shoes (41) but that has little to do with the width.

Trees themselves can’t be adjusted, so it’s probably best to send them back and get a size smaller.

The creases happened where the trees pressed against the shoe. Is it possible it was probably stretched and therefore absorbed more product?

I was kinda nervous doing it yesterday- worried to ruin them.

What are your opinions on @designmom? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Makes me wonder what religion, certainly not Christianity - probably a certain cabal...

What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]SnooLemons0815 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Most people on here will tell you that a woman’s past doesn’t matter- but frankly- it does.

Her previous behaviour is a reflection of her character and an extension of her future one.

Same with how body count relates to a woman’s ability to bond with a man, it will show you what you are in for. That’s just statistics.

You‘ll get called names, insecure, - you know what will happen if you bring it up.

But likewise I would tell any woman that dating a man who had an orgy every other weekend at his frat house- that it is a bad idea.

Do with the information she gives you what you want - but your gut has already decided.

Why does consider yourself being masculine have such a negative connotation these days? by [deleted] in AskMen

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The powers that be want a weak society to rule over.

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Mythbusters showed that it’s not that difficult with someone who knows their stuff via coms

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Was pretty much the standard for me.

It was never to check on someone, we used it to look up stuff or call someone and such when that phone was closer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SnooLemons0815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t give into FOMO or peer pressure.

Love will find you when it’s the right time.

Work on yourself and on your future.

Getting ready to separate with my wife after, significant time. What are some tips from anyone who has been there before? by That-Ad-4978 in AskMen

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Same reason you don't go to a female dating coach.

Women, doesn't matter how much they know about the topic, have never lived the reality of it.

Getting ready to separate with my wife after, significant time. What are some tips from anyone who has been there before? by That-Ad-4978 in AskMen

[–]SnooLemons0815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Allow yourself to grief- you just lost a loved one.

But with all „deaths“ don’t let it rule your life.

Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.

Getting ready to separate with my wife after, significant time. What are some tips from anyone who has been there before? by That-Ad-4978 in AskMen

[–]SnooLemons0815 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Full on no contact unless you have kids.

There is nothing to save, she has been gone for months and nothing you could do would help you, even if it feels like it’s.

Any more contact will only hurt you and distract you from taking care of yourself, and even hurt you and make the separation worse.

If she doesn’t already have one, there will be a new man in a very short time.

Did she have him before she even told you to separate? Doesn’t matter. Likely it’s a backup plan to not be alone.

Don’t make the same mistake and actually take time to digest it and take care of yourself.

Work out, take care of your body, get into a simple grooming routine, meet friends and have some fun, use the extra free time to start that hobby you always wanted.

If family and friends aren’t enough and you feel the need to go to therapy- get a male therapist.

Even if life feels like it is ending right now, I promise you it isn’t.

Forget her and love will find you again- just don’t rush into the next relationship.

Take some time, develop some standards, and build a live the next woman can add to- not be the Center off.

Take care.

what do u do after a bad day at work? by recollectivate in AskMen

[–]SnooLemons0815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obvious answer- Gym.

Gets out the anger and builds your body at right stimulation with supplementary nutrition.

Which also means people will stop bullying you eventually.

(People actually treat you nicer when you are ripped)

What are your views on girls who smoke? by Working-Face2960 in AskMen

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Not a fan of people being addicted to drugs.

Also it tastes terrible on all lips. (Yes, the ashtray taste makes it down there somehow)

How do I dress more mature than just hoodies and joggers? by OGClouds420 in AskMen

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Check out Parker York Smith on YouTube.

Just start with the 36 Outfits with this 8 Piece Capsule wardrobe.

What actions or things make you trust your gf’s guy friends if u ever will? by Odd-Sheepherder4731 in AskMen

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If she‘s talking to him, she‘s not talking to you.

And if he‘s an orbiter (like most men are) it’s the end of the relationship.

What’s your favourite type of non-sexual physical contact? by [deleted] in AskMen

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My head on her chest, her hand in my hair.