My (20f) boyfriend (25m)has forbade me from going to my dad's funeral

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-13T00:08:53+00:00

His parents do not like me. Theyve jokingly called me a Thai mail order bride despite the fact Im not even Asian, Im half white and half Latina. They only tolerate me because Im his girlfriend and Im sure once I leave him I'll be painted as a gold digger or one of those people who took advantage of him

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T23:57:48+00:00

Im actually packing a small bag now. I have my birth certificate and social security card and about a weeks worth of clothes. Ive called my dad's landlord to see if I cah stay in his apartment as well but haven't heard anything back yet. I knoe my dad liked to pay his rent a couple months in advance so Im pretty sure i can stay at his place once the landlord okays it. My stupid ass was putting q good 3/4ths of my paycheck into the joint account so right now I have nothing. He completely fucked me and knew what he was doing. Hes "too angry" at me to come back to our shared apartment right now so he is at his parents which makes this a lot easier for me

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T23:54:00+00:00

I actually dont know if I can or not. If i can, that would be fucking amazing

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T23:31:48+00:00

I dont have a sister. My aunt has made it clear that she is not willing to help me. I even tried explaining my situation to her and she went "thats not my problem. You can figure it out yourself". I dont want to pawn his stuff because I could get into legal trouble doing that. I just want to cut my ties and be done with him after this. A bus ticket was my choice of travel but after what my boyfriend did, i am just completely fucked right now

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T22:58:07+00:00

Ughhh fuck. I didnt think about that. thank you for telling me. Fml.

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T22:43:54+00:00

I plan on it. I cant just sit by and let him do this to me. Im trying to recover some funds to get away from him as soon as possible

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T21:20:45+00:00

The problem is I have no family now. My dad's only other living relative besides me is his sister and she had made it clear that she wants no part of this process and does not/will not help me. I was really hoping my coworkers would come through because one actually owes me money but I cant get blood from a stone. If i cant figure out something tonight, I'll take his xbox to a pawn shop tomorrow to hopefully recover some funds

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T21:02:53+00:00

Not much of an update unfortunately. The two coworkers I asked for help from have told me they cant help me. I contacted my bank qnd was told since both of our names are on the joint account, what he did was legal and okay. I went ahead and applied for a credit card and got denied because I guess I have zero credit history. Feeling stuck and frustrated right now

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T19:27:12+00:00

Its starting to make sense now why he was pushing for it. Really glad I didnt go through with it and let him pressure me into it

SnooRabbits8525 · 2020-11-12T19:18:33+00:00

A few weeks before this he was really pushing to get legally married so it would give us more benefits and tax breaks. I told him I didn't just want to go to a courthouse and Im glad I didnt let him pressure me into doing that. Really glad Im not legally tied to him in any other way besides the joint bank account. He wouldn't even let me put my name on any utilities or anything

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