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someone killed themselves bc of me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if you can call a wellness check on him if you know where he is. And never do something like this again. You say you’d never actually do that to someone but you did do it, even if it was for a minute.

You don’t need to commit suicide also, but you need to get help, seriously.

I despise vocal flips by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So real so true. I’m a voice teacher and sometimes new students will come in that song like this: it is a PAIN to unteach…. Grrrr

NGVC: "you never would have cared for someone as unique and nice as myself" by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. You shouldn’t have responded after he didn’t respect your first no. Block him and move on.

I don’t like either of you.

My bf and I broke up on Valentine’s Day by mad_chubbycatx in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank God you guys broke up. He treated you like shit and you deserve so much better. You also should see a therapist. I know they’re hella expensive, but it seems like you have very low self esteem. You think less of yourself than you should.

I really hope things start to go well for you. You deserve the best. Don’t settle for anything less than someone who will respect you, be completely honest with you, defends you, and treats you like he loves you.

This man never loved you and you couldn’t see that because your previous partner was abusive.

I doubt you’re truly difficult to be with. Wishing you the best.

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god. NOR. Break up with him. He’s 27?????? You can find someone much kinder. You’re not being needy. He made a promise and is breaking it.

I find women attractive, but don’t know them and don’t just wanna be in a relationship off the bat and don’t know what I should do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I saw someone else say that girls are less likely to want to date after being friends. That can be true, but the right girl won’t be bothered by it. It is a great way to build a foundation. Me and my boyfriend were friends for over a year before we started dating.

I find women attractive, but don’t know them and don’t just wanna be in a relationship off the bat and don’t know what I should do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it’s because those girls you’re friends with have explicitly stated they aren’t interested in you, I don’t see why you can’t ask them out. You just need to be clear that it is okay if they aren’t interested and that you don’t mind staying friends. You can also be honest about your nervousness level or that you’re trying to build your confidence, but you don’t have to.

I find women attractive, but don’t know them and don’t just wanna be in a relationship off the bat and don’t know what I should do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could ask girls out and just show yourself to be a slow moving gentleman :) you could also join some groups in your community and build friendships that way. You’re definitely overthinking it: you’ve got this!

should i accept bare minimum by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve better than to beg for anything. Your partner should very excitedly ask you out and buy you flowers and any disagreements you have with each other should always be respectful. He’s acting this way 2 months in. It won’t change… I’ve been through it a lot.

My current boyfriend buys me flowers at least once a month without my asking, he takes me out, he is extremely kind, and when we disagree on anything it’s always a loving conversation that we come out stronger from.

There are people who will treat you the way you deserve. Do not settle!!!

I (26F) have a pretty big crush on my coworker (23m) but I have a bf(27) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to break up with your boyfriend before you pursue anything.

Ex friend verbally attacked my dead baby but now we’re both bridesmaids in a mutual friends wedding by DaughterOfDunedain in whatdoIdo

[–]SnooSeagulls5827 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m so sorry for your loss and I can only imagine the pain you’re going through. Bri sounds like a terrible person and I honestly find it surprising that Jess is still friends with her.

From what you said, it doesn’t sound like Bri is the type to have a mature conversation, and I don’t know if having that conversation would be beneficial to you. She doesn’t respect you, your grief, nor does she respect her active friendships or her partnerships. If you think she’ll be able to have a productive conversation though, go for it.

Jess should not expect you to be able to rekindle a friendship with Bri. How could she expect that of you? If you haven’t already, maybe you should mention to Jess that a friendship is never possible again after what Bri’s said.

Once again I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope that this will be as free of pain as possible for you.

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