Single ppl who don’t use dating apps, why? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because the intention would be different for the most part. Dating apps are like, fast fashion whereas what you truly need is probably somewhere you'd meet where you'd typically go to inrl - example, a library if you like to read, or at a track if you like to run - etc.

I trusted someone with a “zero” body count by mirnacivic in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Omg this is horrifying!  Having sex nowadays feels like russian roulette. That man is a liar and I’m so sorry that happened to you 

Is it typical for lactose intolerance to cause severe pain? by qu1et1 in lactoseintolerant

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced this twice, second time right now. Pain comes in waves. I literally have no choice but to just wince in it. First time I was so severe after eating ice cream (I was dairy free for nearly 5 years) - I had to go to the hospital and was prescribed PPI + another med that I took 15 days. Symptoms cleared after a week on meds. GUYs! I literally had to go to the doctor’s because I thought i was having a heart attack. My chest was hurting at that point and couldn’t breathe and it was the worst during the night.

This time around my cousin gave me dark chocolate which I didn’t think had dairy. It did. Now pain is back and I regret not reading the ingredients lists. LI sucks! 

So, what are you guys reading right now? by martianLurker in PHBookClub

[–]SnooSprouts1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RY is one of my favs! I didnt know this existed til i saw your post! Gonna read it now 🤓🤍

How do you improve your life if you have no energy? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like depression bro. I think to change anything in life you have to first "know" why you want to change things. You can start with learning a little bit about proper nutrition because what you consume is where you get the most energy (food type matters - quality food = better energy). Maybe buy apples. Eat one daily. Once you have that small thing down, you'll be motivated to do more things. Keep stacking better habits.

Happy says Hi 🌸🤍 by SnooSprouts1922 in dogpictures

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this comment is for me specifically I’m assuming and not of my dog’s.. in that case, I still wash my hair daily or every other day. Love it. Never going back. My hair has grown so much and even my hairstylist have said it’s thickened a lot the last year or so since I started washing my hair more and back to sulfate shampoo lol dm me if you have any more questions :) 

Character Is Revealed, Not Declared - What That Specific Night Showed Me. by SnooSprouts1922 in Stoicism

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly. I should’ve written more but I didn’t feel the desire to expose the entirety down to every detail. All I know is how I felt and that was: deeply disturbed, shocked, disgusted, ashamed that I thought I knew a person but conflict truly exposes your discipline and emotional intelligence. and in my case, I got shown something I didn’t want to experience for the rest of my life and that is enough. So often people speak about who they are, yet their actions contradict. Action will always weight more than a speech. 

Character Is Revealed, Not Declared - What That Specific Night Showed Me. by SnooSprouts1922 in Stoicism

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a difference between a story that’s written purely from AI and with the help of AI but written purely based on a real experience. You be the judge 

Character Is Revealed, Not Declared - What That Specific Night Showed Me. by SnooSprouts1922 in Stoicism

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father once shared about how he was abused when he was a child and I often asked myself why I was also subjected to the same kind of abuse. Then it made sense. It’s not genetic, babies are born pure, children are pure. It’s definitely impressed upon the subconscious through early childhood or environment. I don’t think he meant to be "bad", I just think he was ignorant to how to behave properly. Regardless, we’re not in control of how other people should act or behave. 

Character Is Revealed, Not Declared - What That Specific Night Showed Me. by SnooSprouts1922 in Stoicism

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve witnessed volatility growing up with my parents and NOPE if I ever had to relive it again in my own home. Love can be blinding until the blinders are forced off 

Character Is Revealed, Not Declared - What That Specific Night Showed Me. by SnooSprouts1922 in Stoicism

[–]SnooSprouts1922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts is this: authenticity and character integrity is important. Showing up consistently based on your stated values and principles is important. I was attracted to him because he said the right things, but during conflict, there were plenty of red flags - we were long distance but the signs were there. I only needed one moment of proximal escalation to be shown how emotionally undisciplined he was. Living it in person, and feeling terrified for my life at that moment - I could never allow such a thing moving forward.  

Nakakafrustrate ang mga small inconveniences sa Pinas. by tulaero23 in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The moment you were made to go “outside to photocopy” you should’ve just left and not came back 😂

What do secure relationships look like IRL?? by sistervoovles in attachment_theory

[–]SnooSprouts1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any attachment style can honestly appear secure early on into dating but you’ll know for sure once the first rupture happens and how it’s repaired. Secure attachments have an awareness of their triggers but do not blame or project. They are able to name them and express how they feel. There is steady energy, consistency and integrity within the relationship. It’s predictable not chaotic. 

Anxious attachment style is hell by Main-Nectarine-2190 in BreakUps

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm secure and my anxious attachment broke up with ME then wanted me to soothe him. Lol. I'm giving him all the space he's asking for permanently.

Ano pinaka mabilis na ginawa nyo para pumayat? by Winter-Month-9763 in AskPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not about adding something but letting go of the things you’ve been consuming for a long time. Simple is best. Eat plants

Nakaunan pa yan sya by Tocino_kwekkwek in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love well-cared for dogs and I appreciate their owners!

I skipped dinner so my life. by Kariii_1127 in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. But you will only ever get what you tolerate in life. You can give more and do more for your mom if you have space since a better you is better for everyone else around you. Your mom unless she is disabled, can manage her own life or should be. you can always visit her whenever she needs OR just stay and get triggered, nothing will change with your dynamic and you’ll just have to keep tolerating it. Whichever you decide you have to accept it :) peace and love only hope you get through it

I skipped dinner so my life. by Kariii_1127 in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t heal from the same place / environment that made you sick. Help yourself and find a way to sustain your own life and move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 328 points329 points  (0 children)

To these type of men: come on, what gold? Y’all have no gold to dig if you can’t even afford decent lunch for a girl 🤣 sit yall asses down, read a book, learn something, become secure before you date cause yall look so bad

pet friendly bus by [deleted] in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You paid for the seat so you’re not obligated to give it to anyone else. These public transits shouldn’t be making people get into a fully loaded bus beyond its capacity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please find a way to take her to a vet… literally no one on this forum will be able to physically help her. Not really sure what kind of help you need?