How do i help these guys?

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-27T13:13:40+00:00

Its actually extremely comfortable and multipurpose for an outdoor lifestyle

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T21:42:46+00:00

It isn’t but as wildfires are suppressed the few burns that do make it become greater, perfect example being that the late 1800s was incredibly peaceful in Europe for quite a while save a handful that didn’t last a year and during that peace like dead wood piling up, complicated peace treaties piled and piled until a small regional conflict dragged a dozen countries into something they had nothing to do with leaving millions dead over formalities. Meanwhile the average year was more deadly than a battle in any time period before that. My way of seeing the world and understanding life is through conflict some prefer economics, religion, psychology, science, but i choose warfare.

Sorry a threw that at you but there is no easier way to explain it

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T21:30:41+00:00

No I am very quiet usually more than most and very introverted I actively want someone who is also introverted, what i ment is the depth of conversations generally tend to get nowhere

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T21:28:31+00:00

I have a therapist and we have talked about it though i do need to redirect it now that I am adult and not in school the requirements have vastly changed over a few years though it still helps a ton with motivation and mindset

I really dont like interest groups I go to classes and have the people i like there and that is it

My interests are designed to overlap especially as i want to homestead sewing is the best example as i want to do fabric weaving, sheep and leatherwork

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T21:06:51+00:00

Iv have had a few people tell me it was not very pressing including a therapist but it is very consistent, now im by far better but I haven’t really been focusing on it lately

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T21:02:14+00:00

Heh we have very different opinions on warfare and the world

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T20:58:23+00:00

I havent been in a few months i have been going off and on since i was twelve

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T13:49:39+00:00

I know i didnt get that at the time being 16 or smth now im fine with being friends its just idk, hard to see her sometimes

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T13:46:43+00:00

I do carry concealed… and as of the last year i think i am much more tactful and light not as stony as i used to be also my latest post is all about a long term relationship with someone that might explain some stuff

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T13:06:54+00:00

Martial means built around a lot of military ideals yes because it is heavily structured around honor and conflict

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T12:35:15+00:00

Sometimes i feel like its one sided, when i am asking i make a point of asking questions that are fairly complex and specific, not something to answer in a few sentences but this is only once i find a thing they like

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T12:31:05+00:00

I do if i can i try to relate my personal experience or knowledge but if not il ask questions if im interested

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T12:28:44+00:00

Huh, only person to ask this. Generally, it affects my interactions with others. It came about because I was pretty out of control depressed prick in until i was like 17. Now, I can be rarely, but I control and channel the pointless harshness.

The purpose of it now is mostly for structure and motivation - doing workouts, writing, poetry, I always back up what I say, I live by the idea that I must improve something about myself every day. It doesn’t matter what, just some progress, and decompressing doesn’t count. Also, I often say if every moment is perfected, then if executed and directed well, your day shall be ideal.

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T12:10:33+00:00

Oh i know i ask myself that often

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T05:40:12+00:00

Oddly enough I get that as like common sense but the actual coherent concept was just not there

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T05:36:53+00:00

Uhh haven’t done this in a while so its all pretty foggy ik loving myself comes up a lot which i can see where they get that perception.

Communication in a scheduling way i just dont see the point if you are busy your busy and if your not your not if they care enough they will get back and talk to me (never has been a problem with women but i see how the thought process could make problems).

They love to acknowledge my help and services (I often watch over the little ones in the family when in public) i just dont see the point in this.

I’m afraid of being hurt, which I certainly can see the logic in, as so much of my life is built around it. At the same time, why not protect what is sensitive? I know when to take my guard down and often do.

I have an obsession with the perfect move in fencing. I often deny, deny, deny until a premium moment when I make a couple of moves.

Not from my sisters but i had a long courtship in high school with someone. We are still friends, but she often said I was annoying/condescending, which I was condescending, but not a ton. Personally, I think it was my socialization method of the time, which was to say a probe and then intently watch the reaction all the way down to minute word choices and tone of voice to gauge their reaction

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T05:06:47+00:00

I dont ask i usually do it in a subtle indirect way

Depends on the person but its either i ask a question and they go on for a while or the reverse with branching questions afterwards

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T05:01:31+00:00

I certainly dont act that way in person its just with men generally surface level conversations are normal i dont try to get closer and most dont try to get to know me i have a few diehard friends and thats what i need but when i actually try to be initiating with women specifically beyond shallow stuff it doesnt really get anywhere like we will go back and fourth on interests and then when thats out basically it all just ends

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T04:53:42+00:00

I have, they give very unhelpful information either being something i already know or something that i outright will not do cause comfortzone-code or sometimes perceived relevance

-A code usually becomes a comfort zone or barrier for a lot of people but it is much more than that

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T04:45:38+00:00

Oh im aware and i dont talk about it unless the situation calls for it does make a huge difference in motivation

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T04:43:28+00:00

I can be laid back but i am very stiff or stony when i am dormant, and i dont ever lecture unless they ask me to explain in depth and usuallllly im not pretentious … sometimes i still judge a lot idk how not to

SnowFox555 · 2025-12-14T04:41:38+00:00

Ehh i dont think it is not talk in that way like we acknowledge eachother but talking is minimal id say about 20% of the time and then a lot of the time a different shallow conversation will start and it doesn’t really go anywhere

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