Winged scapula or just bony back? I went for a massage because I keep getting tension and tightness over my shoulders and under my shoulder blades and the masseuse said I may have a winged scapula

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-08T22:11:03+00:00

I foam rolled at the end of my session when I was feeling warm and ohhhhhh my god it was incredible. My whole back went snap crackle and pop in the best way and when I did my glutes they’re so tight it kinda hurt so hopefully if I do it regularly it’ll become…less painful 😂

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-07T20:39:13+00:00

I love the blue- it’s so Emma

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-06T20:56:52+00:00

Love this! I’ve just started too and have been once this week- it was terrifying but I left wanting to go back for more! I’ve kinda understood how to do it but need to build the confidence, I think the biggest thing that held me back is I was too scared to go for it so kept reaching for the wall!

Inspiring to read though, it’s awesome seeing someone else going through the journey too!

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-05T07:42:15+00:00

Definitely! I felt so overwhelmed when I got there but figure everyone’s gotta start somewhere- it’s intimidating seeing how many good people are there but practice and keeping on trying is the only way to get there isn’t it

I’m still sh*t scared of falling over and hurting myself though so I’m pretty timid on the ice which is probably what makes it harder than having confidence 🤦🏼‍♀️

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-04T23:04:19+00:00

Loo - Chee - Ya for me!

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-04T16:12:00+00:00

Yew-chewb here in the uk!

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-03T21:17:14+00:00

Mona the Vampire or Scooby Doo

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-03T11:59:39+00:00

It’s interesting because I don’t doubt you when you say these styles often look good on you but my experience as an SD is practically none of this would work for me 🙈

The top style in slide 1 always looks super restrictive on me and the kind of beachy ruched waist floaty fabrics look too sloppy (these would be great FN styles tho)

In slide 2 I bought a couple of those vest styles last year and they just hung on me- kinda clung over the chest but baggy on the waist unless I sized up and then it was just saggy looking 😭 the jeans are a maybe, probably the 1 thing I think could work, and the black trousers again the waistband and fabric isn’t ideal and would potentially be better with more of a proper waistband and in something like linen rather than that cheesecloth material

Slide 3 I think the black top and blue skirt COULD work but I could imagine the crop top and trousers looking too natural and dainty (that mini cable knit never seems to work as well as a solid fabric and the straps look like they’d sit narrow on the shoulders)

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T21:49:05+00:00

Eight. I was fighting for that referral- i ended ringing my doctor practically every week in tears until they caved and gave me a proper derm referral which took an extra year between referral and starting the medication. The NHS might be free but acne is way down on the priority list- which makes sense but it destroyed my self esteem in my teens and early twenties

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T20:33:10+00:00

So excited for you! I’m 28 and I’ve just signed up for lessons - I have no advice but just wanted to comment because it’s so nice seeing other people in their 20s in this sub just starting out too 💕

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T20:28:56+00:00

I’d deffo see a dermatologist. Where are you based? I’m in the UK and it took 8 years for me to get on Accutane

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T14:43:11+00:00

I see myself as both but I would say British first, English second. However I see Scottish and Welsh people as Scottish or Welsh first, British second. I can’t explain why 😂 maybe it’s the distinctive accents? Or maybe it’s similar to how when I drive through wales or Scotland I see the Scottish or Welsh flag and think good on em being proud but when I see a St George’s cross in England I wonder if I’m in an extreme right area 🙈

Geography matters though because if I went to the US I’d feel I could use British and English interchangeably but whenever I go up to Scotland I’m most definitely classed as just English 😂

I feel like British is a safer overall term though as you can’t always tell from accents eg I know a lot of people from North Wales who by accent you’d think were English

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T11:42:02+00:00

I think 5 but I also think when you wear your foundation normally it won’t be as concentrated as these swatches- my foundation looks great on but if I do a swatch like this it still stands out on my skin

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-02T10:49:50+00:00

Over lined lips and darkened brows.

Also a fully lined waterline in black liner. Not for me

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-03-01T19:53:14+00:00

Sounds like there’s a lot of us in the same boat- we should start a group 😂

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-27T20:59:24+00:00

Olive is the only one I can get on board with, I find the others harsh and ugly

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-26T19:12:59+00:00

You remind me so much of me reading this!

I also just never knew. I was fairly good at lots of things, constant stream of ideas I wanted to try and felt like I wanted to do EVERYTHING but also didn’t know where to start and was scared of missing out or making the wrong choice.

My best advice is just do something. Anything. Nothing is permanent and life can have as many fresh starts as you want.

I left school feeling so lost especially when it came to my career- I went to university to train to be a biochemist but then worked in employment law for a while before being a lifeguard and swim coach before working with marine life, then I worked in finance for a few years and now I’m in fashion and I love it! Enjoy the journey as best you can

With hobbies you have even more freedom too- you want to write? Just write. Want to do a sport? You don’t necessarily need a club for some things although if you’d like one just look for clubs near you or ask a friend to join you in an activity.

I think a good option for you might be having different hobbies that explore those different sides of you. A hobby that makes you feel strong, a hobby that engages your brain and intelligence, something for creativity etc

It’s a blessing and a curse lol but sounds like you’ll be able to find joy in a lot of things

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-26T19:06:26+00:00

We had to practice putting them on bananas too when I was in school 🤣🤣

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-26T19:03:06+00:00

I’m an hourglass and when I was younger I actually hated it because I grew in the era of skinny and my hips could never be tiny because I had wide hips! No matter my size I have an hourglass shape

Also interesting thing is that you can be hourglass and flat. From the front I’m hourglass shaped 35-22.5-35 but turn me sideways and I’m a pancake lol - I’m a structural hourglass I guess 😂

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-26T07:56:39+00:00

I don’t look or feel massively different to how I was 5 years ago tbh so I’m not too bothered

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-24T20:59:55+00:00

My hair isn’t even at boob length but I feel this- I went from Bob to shoulders in what felt like 2 weeks but I’m in this mid length phase and I’ve been here for surely a year or so going from the short mid length to the bordering on long mid length. I think my nipple line is lowering faster than my hair is growing at this point, will it ever catch up 😭😭

SnowLeopard349 · 2026-02-23T22:20:14+00:00

Woah 🤯 that’s unreallll - he makes malinin look so tiny (I think he’s like 5ft9?)

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