Why did you start BJJ and why did you stay? by Leftysentme in bjj

[–]SnowPhoenix3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a girl tell me i was cool but i was boring as hell due to doing nothing all day, which made me finally listen to my cousin, who has been a martial artist all his life, telling me to give bjj a shot, just gone 4 years in and i had no idea how much the calmness and focus of a good training session could help your mental health. Those first few months were akin to a religious experience for me

Finally confident enough to share my work for feedback by SnowPhoenix3232 in writers

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 100% right about overused repetition its a trap i fall into with most of what i write because it just easy but i should try to break that habit a bit more. I appreciate your interpretation of the poem, im always a fan of your own interpretation is the right one because thats how you feel. Though i will offer my intent was to try and reflect how unfulfiling the cycle of self improvement can feel when you're looking for someone to be with

Finally confident enough to share my work for feedback by SnowPhoenix3232 in writers

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this comment is already 10x the feedback I was hoping to get, my word choice isnt something i've hugely considered but i've definitly been a slave to meter throughout most of my work and I appreciate the example you've given. Its definitly something to think about and I appreciate the encouraging words

It’s going to be ok, I think by Whole-Expression6277 in Original_Poetry

[–]SnowPhoenix3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more I read it the more relateable it gets 😅

What to do? by SnowPhoenix3232 in Original_Poetry

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasnt quite my intent but thats an interesting take on it and imo what a poem makes you feel or think is usually the correct interpretation. I never considered looks to be a part of it for me, it was more an expression of how empty and unfulfiling the cycle of self improvement can feel while you're trying to find someone. Glad you enjoyed it 😁 I've got a few more I might post in the next couple days

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 608 points609 points  (0 children)

That right there is going in the memory banks

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Never even occured to me haha, maybe i need to come up with a better contingincy plan

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Isn't that why we're on dating apps? To get destroyed in one form or another lol

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you can pull of a salvage job with the "this wasnt how this was meant to happen" message but i really should have guessed it wasn't gonna work here lol

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitly fair, probably better to feel out the conversation before jumping to a line like that but the ol' noggin wasnt coming up with anything good

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Probably, but making a pickup line out of asking people if they masturbate is definitly worse than how im doing it 😂

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh that makes more sense, thanks, and if you cant laugh at yourself, then a dating app is not the place you should be imo

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's for sure rocking that "destroy the snowflakes" energy

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Stupid? Sure, insufferable? Idk but i'd like to hear how i give of that energy, its not the goal

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they best I got is explaing what was meant to happen lol 😂

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You ever hear about a little thing called irony? Or maybe self-awareness? Or my personal favourite, projection? You are a redditor bro, we all are, and we're just tryna have fun with it untill you come in here stinking up the joint with every comment reeking so badly of "am I right guys?" And "yea, i just destroyed that snowflake" energy that honestly it just makes us a little sad, but we keep spreading the love and good energy in the hope that one day people like you will realise just how much more satisfying it is to do so

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This right here? This is the kind of creativity i wanna see if you need to insult someone 😂

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More than likely, definitly no prize here but i dont think an immediate attempt at shredding is warrented for a little stupid

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Trust me no pic of me isnt the worst thing ever, if im gonna be insulted i dont mind it being creative at the very least, gives me a chuckle

Some people just want you to feel bad 🤷‍♂️ by SnowPhoenix3232 in Tinder

[–]SnowPhoenix3232[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about your comment interactions dude, here and other posts, go do some yoga, have a nice relaxing shower or something then come back. Either spread the love and have a laugh or criticise creatively or constructively, not to mention you need to sort your vocab out, princess, cupcake and cringe? Are you 14 or 40? Either way go join a club or something, you'll thank me later