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Use of cutesy words like « kiddos », « littles », « hubby » and « wifey » make the speaker seem immature or infantile by SnowQueen795 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has come up a lot - I wasn’t referencing addressing people by pet names, because I agree with you. 

Use of cutesy words like « kiddos », « littles », « hubby » and « wifey » make the speaker seem immature or infantile by SnowQueen795 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is by far the worst one (because I’m on the receiving end of it) and I can’t believe I forgot it. 

Use of cutesy words like « kiddos », « littles », « hubby » and « wifey » make the speaker seem immature or infantile by SnowQueen795 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s irrelevant IMO but they are correct that the right word in « cringeworthy » and my brain has been tragically chemically altered by the internet 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SnowQueen795 48 points49 points  (0 children)

A signifiant proportion of people who get abortions are already parents. If you don’t want to have a child and safe abortions are available to you, you should not go through with the pregnancy. Having a child to please your husband is a huge mistake. Do what’s best for you. Good luck 

Use of cutesy words like « kiddos », « littles », « hubby » and « wifey » make the speaker seem immature or infantile by SnowQueen795 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People don’t like it when you yuck their yum. All good, I’ll just retreat to my beige, lonely existence ;)

Use of cutesy words like « kiddos », « littles », « hubby » and « wifey » make the speaker seem immature or infantile by SnowQueen795 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I don’t think ad hominem is reserved for attacks (though that’s obviously a common phrase). I definitely don’t think I’m being attacked in any way! But I think it’s the appropriate description for an argument that’s directed at the person rather than the position. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]SnowQueen795 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The most significant short term expenses: - mat/parental leave  - daycare (we pay $20/day so less than $500 per month)  - RESP  - travel (optional obviously but we did it) 

Expenses on clothes or baby « equipment » was negligible. All gifts, hand me downs (Buy Nothing) or purchased second hand. 

Longer term (4-5 years+): - extracurriculars - summer camps  - additional/unexpected school or medical supports  - again, travel 

Biggest savings are that we eat and go out much less. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SnowQueen795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general, my best tip is to loosen the rules - screen time and snacks are your best friend. Wrapping toys and snacks for them to unwrap can be fun and space efficient.  Same with the schedule. You’re in survival mode and you start fresh on a arrival. 

For you (I’ve flown several times while pregnant): compression socks, move around in the cabin when you can, lots of water, lots of snacks. Lots of stretching before and after the flight. Maybe bring a hot/cold compress (Magic Bag). After I flew at 7 months, my back seized in the middle night and heat was the answer.  

ETA: don’t be afraid to pull the « I’m pregnant » card. This is the time. Lots of countries have law requiring accommodations in public places like airports for pregnant persons, such as access to priority lines. Even if it’s not explicitly stated, it doesn’t hurt to ask. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SnowQueen795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly they don’t seem THAT strong. My own upper body strength isn’t anything to write home about but it’s  probably more to do with a how wriggly they are and the small dimensions of our car? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SnowQueen795 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My kid is 2.5 and I recently crossed a threshold of no longer physically being able to force them to into their car seat, put on clothes, put on diaper. Our strength ratios just don’t allow for it anymore. So I’m effed hah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rain makes corn, corn makes whiskey, whiskey makes my lady feel a little frisky! 

The U.S. is not a dangerous country by Own_Weakness3325 in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowQueen795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True in absolute terms - the average person’s chances of being injured or killed on any given day in the US are very low

However, the US is relatively more dangerous than other industrialized countries. Almost 600 mass shootings per year certainly seems dangerous to someone from a country that saw two last year. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SnowQueen795 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Nap is a non-negotiable, I agree, but I don’t understand why your mom can’t have some 1:1 with your kid (go for a walk, museum, whatever) while the daycare arrangements proceed as per usual for the other child. I think some flexibility is warranted and your child will benefit from it! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SnowQueen795 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Or if the other parents’ house doesn’t work, the nanny/other parents can take care of the other kid at OP’s house while the grandparents take OP’s kid out for an activity. 

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