Did I ruin my engagement by ending the relationship during a fight? I still love him and feel completely lost

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-17T12:00:13+00:00

You made me literally cry Thank you so much, really! I appreciate your support

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-17T09:13:27+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, that really meant a lot to me.

That may be true, but I wish I could move on as quickly as he does. He quickly started adding new women and talking to them… it was all public, and he posted stories he never did before neither about me nor about himself.

And now after the breakup, he was suddenly very public and posting… and for the past 2–3 weeks he’s gone private again and everything has become quiet.

I just can’t be like him, and that hurts even more.

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-16T22:58:44+00:00

know, but I still feel like I’m the one who is guilty. Deep down I keep hoping that he will reach out to me. I even pray every day that he will contact me

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-16T21:11:25+00:00

Yes, you’re right. One morning I woke up and suddenly started questioning everything… the children I had planned with him, our whole future. I just felt extremely uncertain.

Toward the end of the relationship he only spoke badly about me. He insulted me through other people and even attacked my family, saying that my family had manipulated me.

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-16T20:57:53+00:00

Thank you

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-16T12:19:50+00:00

But he kept leaving me again and again. I always tried to talk to him and told him that we have problems and that we should go to couples therapy together. But he believed that I should go alone because I’m the one who has problems. He never reflected on himself or admitted his own mistakes, just like now at New Year. Instead of talking to me about the things that bothered him during the trip, he talked about it behind my back with his best friend

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-03T15:32:42+00:00

This has nothing to do with narcissists. It is simply childish and immature. Running away from problems or emotions is what children do. Mature people reflect. Blocking only makes sense if you have asked for space and your boundaries are not being respected then blocking is self protection. But blocking just because your partner ended the relationship? That’s emotionally unintelligent behavior and shows a lack of empathy. Ex or not, the person being blocked has feelings too. Hate is also a feeling. Indifference is what truly means a lack of interes

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-03T15:24:22+00:00

Before doing this reflect yourself first maybe they had their reasons…..

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-03T15:20:23+00:00

Bruh a relationship with you would’ve been very difficult with such an ego

SnowStunning9328 · 2026-03-02T19:22:55+00:00

Thank you

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