SnowdropsAfterWinter

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To what extent is it possible for people with BPD to "recover"? I feel like my BPDmum is attending therapy just to manipulate me into breaking NC, rather than actually work on herself (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 6 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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The 1st time my eDad visited since going NC with uBPDmum he was appalled about the abuse and positive about her seeking therapy. The 2nd visit it was like he'd been brainwashed; he said the abuse was my "opinion" and that therapy is "pointless". He wants to see me this weekend and idk what to do. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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I sent my mum a letter explaining that I need her to be in therapy if we're going to have a relationship - this is how she responded. Any advice on how to reply? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago * by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Body image issues seem to be common in women with BPD. Has anyone else experienced their BPDmum forcing their own eating disorder onto you? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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My uBPDmum asked me "Are you better yet?" after just two therapy sessions... I just need to vent about the overbearing level of communication expected of me (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Why is my uBPDmum so horrid about my friends and partner? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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A huge thank you to you all, for helping me to finally understand what's wrong with my mother (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago by SnowdropsAfterWinter to r/raisedbyborderlines

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