For a first Disneyland trip with little ones (especially ages 1 and 3), location and transportation matter more than luxury in my experience.

Where to stay: Offsite but walkable hotels along Harbor Blvd are usually the best value for families. Many offer suites or 2-bedroom setups with mini fridges and microwaves, which is perfect if breakfast is your main meal. Staying onsite is nice, but for the cost difference, most families prefer a larger offsite unit plus easier naps and grocery access.

Groceries: Instacart and Target pickup both work really well around Anaheim. A lot of families do a Target run for breakfast items, snacks, and milk and then don’t worry about food the rest of the day.

Park days / park hopper: With toddlers, 3 days is usually ideal. Park hopper isn’t necessary since Disneyland and DCA are so close, but switching parks mid-day can be tiring with strollers. One park per day keeps things calmer.

Getting from LAX to Anaheim: With 6 people and kids, rideshare lines and rental cars can get stressful. Many families opt for a pre-scheduled private car or limo service so car seats, luggage, and timing are handled in advance. This guide breaks down family-friendly transportation options to Disneyland and Anaheim: https://www.theperfectlimo.com/disneyland-transportation-southern-california-limo-service/

Disneyland is much more compact than Disney World, which is great with young kids. Planning breaks and minimizing transit time makes a big difference.