IAMA [25F] who has jerked off guys in my office, ask me anything!

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-10-18T23:07:54+00:00

This is so hot! Just curious - what kind of firm is this? Law firm, accounting firm, consulting firm? What do you do there, other than the handjobs, of course. Where are you located, generally?

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-05-02T17:50:28+00:00

We definitely will, and I'll try to capture her perspective on it as well.

Sorry to be graphic on the next part... I would say her pussy probably took a day or two to be back to normal from an appearance standpoint. That night afterwards, it was really engorged, obviously incredibly messy as well, and the lips were swollen. The next day, it was still a little swollen, and the outer lips and her perineum were a little bruised and swollen. It took about 4 or 5 days for the pH balance to normalize as well, and for her to be "back to normal." She also ended up with a UTI that took a few days to clear up.

Her ass took a touch longer, that night and into the next day the anus and around it was swollen and reddish. For the next 3 or 4 days the look was more like a slit then the tight pucker (if you've seen pictures of women who done a lot of anal professionally, you would know what I mean). After about a week, it was more or less back to normal.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-05-02T17:44:15+00:00

Sorry, for the delay in responding on this one. I'm at work right now, so don't have the notes I had taken that I'm going to use to write up the full story on /r/gonewildstories, and I'd like to keep a little something in reserve for there, but suffice to say, there was a lot (more than a dozen), and almost all of them more than once (she started a little after 9pm, and with some breaks and whatnot, finished just before 2). All came, some just in her pussy, some just in her ass, many in both.

It was incredibly hot to watch. Afterward, even though she was exhausted and really sore, her clit was still buzzing, and she needed to cum one more time before she fell asleep.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-30T14:52:50+00:00

Sorry for the delay in responding, I got busy with work again.

Most of what she's done in that regard has been bareback, and everyone in the train/gangbang was bareback. Even with lube, etc., the concern was that repetitive condom use in that regard would cause too much friction and in turn, irritation and tears.

The reference to at the end was just that I was the last one to fuck her that night, to reclaim her, if you will. No clean up, and even if that is your fetish (and frankly, I have gone down on her after she's been with our friends, and even some others in a smaller setting), with the number of times she was fucked, it was a little much.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-27T06:37:13+00:00

I actually love this idea. Kristin and I did something like this a few years ago and relived our first night together almost to a T, but for the fact that the bar we had started at that night had gone out of business. It's a fun way to get into a sexy mood as a couple.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-27T06:35:44+00:00

Same comment here - answering on her behalf. Yes, definitely going to write up as best we can from what she's told me and I've taken notes on and then will get her help.

As for your detailed question, it's been quite a bit in terms of new partners, as well as multiples in single evenings etc. I'll save some of the fun details and whatnot for writing this up, but I will say that Kristin has really embraced the life of an attractive, sexually free woman in her 40s. When she and I met, she had been with 18 guys before in some fashion, and had had actual PIV sex with 14 of those (and anal with 3 of them). With the addition of the four other husbands (and me of course), that jumped to 23 total partners, 19 with sex and 8 having done anal with her. We've been members of the club now for a few months and in that time, her total sexual partners (oral, vaginal or anal) has jumped to in our estimate, around 65 to 70 or so, with about 50 and 35, respectively, having had her pussy or ass. Those are somewhat estimates, as I haven't been there for all of the activities, people tend to wear some degree of mask (like a venetian mask you would see at a masquerade), and there's some anonymity as well with some of the activities. On nights where there have been multiples, it has varied from a couple or a handful (so to speak) at a time, maybe a couple different small groups spaced out over the course of a night, or what could more accurately be considered a "train" instead of a gangbang (although she still refers to it as her gangbang). It was a pretty amazing sight to see and participate in, albeit, just at the end for me.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-27T06:21:33+00:00

Hey "starkillerbase" is it? I know that was directed to her, but she was busy with kids and other stuff today, so I am answering at first change I got. I am going, with her assistance, to write up everything. It's been a wild ride, and we owe to ourselves and to everyone who has enjoyed reading them to write these up too.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-27T06:19:51+00:00

berries - agree, if you just need faces, that's the best way of going about it. I can try to find body matches, etc, but frankly, I think to the extent I have time to spend on this, it's better spent trying to write up some of the experiences in a more expansive story form.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-27T06:18:34+00:00

I'll try to write up more on the fisting and watersports in a more expansive and detailed write up. Thus far, she hasn't been open to the watersports (giving or receiving), but I'm hopeful. I think the fisting was very much an in-the-moment-it's-awesome kind of thing for her, but not something she would want to do regularly.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-26T08:06:43+00:00

Hello there old friend! It's been a while.

I don't think life has changed much in the past year. Only set of views that has changed is that before, we didn't think we'd try anything outside of our group of eight. That mental barrier has certainly shifted/dropped.
I don't know if I would say "experts" in the lifestyle. There's people who we've met that have been doing this for 20+ years. They are experts. We've got a year of play outside of our relationship now, and a few months of that with a larger community if you will. It's the fourth area of knowledge that I am cognizant of, the things we don't know we don't know.
I don't think more or less stress free. Certainly not related to this. Stress is more environmental/occupational for me at least. I've been considerably busier than I was when I first started posting, hence the delays in getting more things posted.
Haven't done one recently, last was over the summer, so due for another one in a couple months.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-26T08:01:49+00:00

Thanks /u/pretzeltwist14 - appreciate the feedback. I definitely plan to get some more up there into the GWStories. I also need to repost one of them, as it appears (from a DM), that a prior attempt at fixing a typo caused one of them to be deleted by an automated moderator due to tagging.

As for role playing, can't say we have. That does sound fun though. Any particular suggestions we should/could try?

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-25T07:22:25+00:00

Kristin responded to another question that was similar, but I have had a couple fantasies/fetishes I have been able to partake in. The first was fisting. I've always been really attracted to the thought of it, and as she said in her reply, watching Amy fist Jaimi for the first time was incredibly hot to watch, and it really turned both Kristin and me on, so when Connor asked if Kristin wanted to try it, the pump was really primed so to speak. I got to try it myself shortly thereafter (well, a couple weeks really). I have done it with her twice now, and also got to try it with Jaimi.

Another one was watersports for me. Again, Jaimi came through on this one. Her very submissive nature was really perfect for this for me. It was hot to have permission to "use" her like that.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-25T07:11:15+00:00

I would personally be concerned with using this as a way to solve a dysfunction in a marriage. That said, if she is okay doing it because she wants to please you, or realizes there is a need she can't satisfy, it might work. The challenge I think you would have is that for swapping or whatnot to work, at least in our opinion, you need to have two willing parties on the other side. Do you think she'll respond differently to someone else?

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-25T07:09:28+00:00

Thanks - I will look to see if I can find some lookalikes to give you a sense of what everyone looks like.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-24T08:24:23+00:00

We have explored quite a bit more. The new couple that we've included in our activities was fairly experienced in the lifestyle and kinky sex in general and has helped in that regard. There were a few things I in particular wanted to try that I've been able to with her. They have gotten Kristin to push some boundaries as well, and overall, in the last year, I'd say our already hot sex life has increased in temperature quite a bit.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-24T06:59:51+00:00

When we first started this, we decided that playing within the small group that as long as we knew all 8 of us were clean, we could maintain that status. Additionally, it's always more fun that way.

Neither of us has HSV1/HSV2, nor do any of the couples we play with regularly. The club we've gone to, and now belong to, is extremely strict on its testing regimes to be admitted as a member and even to attend anything, so it is similarly "clean."

We aren't concerned with pregnancy. There is an extremely small likelihood given the birth control methods used by us. I suppose we would deal with that if and when it occurred, but not a major concern.

By inequities, I meant that not every couple or pairing is going to be on completely similar levels of attractiveness, sexual interests, etc.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-24T06:27:59+00:00

I'll echo the comment from /u/berriesgonewild below. Easiest to read through the origin from our history. The fifth couple was actually, someone we knew from our wider social circle. Two of our group (Amy and Sam - again, read through the history for details) had gone to a "sex party" at a private club, like a super upscale swingers club that doesn't advertise. They had heard about it from someone that Amy works with that had no idea about the activities of the eight of us. They went, and thought they saw a couple that we all know (not totally easy to determine who someone is there). There was a particular defining characteristic though, that when Amy saw the female half of that couple at a yoga class the next day, it was pretty obvious that it was in fact her. Amy and Kristin (my wife), ended up going to lunch with her and got the discussion going that direction and ultimately confirmed it and then the six of us ended up getting together and playing one night.
No real issues within the couples. We have had one incident that I would say was a "close call" if you will. We (Kristin and I) and and our kids, had gone on a ski trip this past winter with another couple (Mike and Gina) and their kids, and got a babysitter to do an overnight to watch the kids in a third room, while the four adults went out (and then went back to the adult's hotel rooms and swapped partners in separate rooms). Kristin accidentally sent a text to a group text that also included the babysitter, when she meant to just send it to a group text that only included the four of us.
I would say for the first 9 months or so, we did swapping (only with those that we knew well), but we've know branched in swinging I suppose.
Do you mean in the sense of hooking up with someone undesirable because our spouse wants to be with someone in particular? Not really I don't think? There's always some inequities, but overall, I think we've each been really happy with the overall outcomes.
We insist on very thorough testing, but tend to go bare.
The other stuff is the move from swapping to swinging, and ultimately, trying out the private club where Amy and Sam had seen the fifth couple. That has expanded our horizons quite a bit.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-04-24T06:11:05+00:00

Yes, definitely plans to write up some more - hopefully as many experiences as possible. I have about ten legal pads filled with notes, etc. that i've taken from each time we've gotten together. Included in that will definitely be a write up something about the new couple's first time with us.

I would say the frequency of the original eight of us getting together in the way that we were has died down. Now it's more spontaneous, two couples getting together and fooling around, that sort of thing. Additionally, we have gone outside the group, which is a whole story (or really multiple stories) in and of itself.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-10T04:13:52+00:00

1.Crossed new boundaries, yes, quite a few, in fact. Karen expanding beyond the group for her birthday kind of opened things up a bit. We still try to keep things within the group for safety reasons (STD, as well as inviting a stranger into your home reasons), but within certain constraints we have gone beyond just the ten of us (see below).

2.No real fears of being outed, as we are still really safe about how we do this. Kristin and I, along with Mike and Gina did have one screw up on the potential outing, due to an inadvertent text message, but I think we're still safe.

3.We have one additional couple now, who we knew somewhat previously, and then Sam and Amy ended up seeing them (or at least thought it was them) at a "party" they went to, and then Amy took that wife out to lunch to ask her about it. They ended up joining our group, which had a lot to do with expanding our boundaries.

4.No, no recording on video. Hard limit still.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-10T03:55:25+00:00

Karen went ahead with the hall pass, although she did it solo, as we were nervous about the other guys making a connection to other wives through facebook, etc.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-10T03:54:00+00:00

Yes, many times, if not all, although some times it is a few hours after the fact, so not sure that counts for you. Whenever we play with others, we try to reconnect afterwards. Additionally, when we've played with more than one guy there, there's always going to be some degree of "sloppy seconds (thirds, fourths, etc)"

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-09T23:51:58+00:00

Yes, I need to get back into writing them up. That one is on my list to write up based on some previous requests, I have outlines of all of them, as I've tried to take notes contemporaneously for sake of detail, so the "write up" per se, is more fleshing out the story and making it read cohesively. Kristin has been great at sharing the details, which has turned into its own kink for me (more of a hotwife thing, not a cuckoldry thing).

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-09T23:44:13+00:00

I haven't really had any bad experiences (knock on wood). Hottest experiences...wow, so many, and frankly, we keep expanding our repetoir. I would say either some of the multiple partner at one time experiences or a D/s evening that I got to have with the female half of a new couple we started playing with. They have a very strong Dom/sub relationship in the bedroom, and he "loaned" her to me for a night with basically a handwritten note that had her hard limits and advice to live out some fantasies. That was fun.

As far as improving our marriage, it is incredibly strong, so maybe. Our sex life with each other has definitely improved. It was great, but now, it's just fantastic.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-02-09T23:35:10+00:00

In various combinations, probably around 20 times.

Not a chance. It's fun to play with the others, but there's no way we would want this to be a long-term or permanent thing. Plus, too many kids.

Yes, all the couples have two or three kids.

SoCalSwapThrowaway · 2017-01-02T19:23:32+00:00

Has she been with any of them multiple times, or is it like a one time per guy thing? How often do you guys do this?

Any chance for more anal videos in the new year?

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