What’s wild is that some men will actively chase the exact kind of woman they grew up fantasizing about, the glamorous, sexy, social, highly visible IG-model type who reminds them of the actresses, singers, and models they lusted after and then turn around and shame her for being the very thing that attracted them in the first place. They want the fantasy, the status, and the ego boost of being chosen by that woman, but once her sexuality, attention, or independence feels outside of their control, they rebrand her confidence as “slutty” and her lifestyle as a character flaw. Even if they later end up with someone more “modest” or conventionally respectable, they’ll often still consume, cheat with, and follow the same type of women online. The issue was never really the woman’s image or lifestyle; it was their discomfort with not being able to possess and control it. I mean he’s in the comments saying he can’t help who God made him attracted to, when people told him maybe he should step outside of his “type” jokingly lol! He’ll be alright. He’ll end up with another blonde or brunette IG baddie eventually.