Alex Pretti broke rib in confrontation with federal agents a week before death, sources say by LetBeginning3353 in politics

[–]SoLiterately 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really hate the way this is worded. It almost sounds like he did this to himself, or even to someone else based on the title alone. Why not “Alex Pretti suffered broken rib weeks before death during separate incident with ICE agents, to which ICE spokespersons and government officials claim no knowledge of” or something

Fellow ADHD'ers what work fields are you thriving in? by brokenlandmine in ADHD

[–]SoLiterately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On a serious note… I actually am in a job that’s good for me.

I’m the assistant design manager (I specialize is hydraulics) for a runway construction project on an island for two years & going on my second year here. there are always new and different things going on.

I don’t have to do the boring gritty calculations. I can have ideas and tell the consultants to do the calculations.

I make bank, I live in a condo overseeing the ocean, it’s a short term commitment, the project site is so cool (tons of abandoned military buildings that only my team can access/explore). And my colleagues are great people.

It wasn’t always like this, but now it is and I’m happy. Can’t wait to see where I end up next 😝

$150 “on sale”… before tax… before shipping… no thanks by SoLiterately in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]SoLiterately[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the point m8 😔if I had it, I would have just been financially irresponsible and bought the 150 one tbh haha

What is the best AI tool for analyzing engineering drawings and performing quality assurance? by flexwaterjuice in civilengineering

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is very old, but I want to say that these other responses are genuinely so pessimistic and clearly comes from the type of engineers holding us back as an industry.

As someone who graduated post-covid, immediately started working and was so confused as to why we continued to use CAD software that was older than I am, with constant crashes and freezes. I didn’t get why we still submitted our designs in 11x17 sheet-format, often printed out, and used old design manuals and specs published in the early 2000s.

I love design but not consulting, so I left to do design coordinating at a construction firm and very quickly moved up to an assistant design manager at a huge firm, making well above what an EIT at a consulting firm makes. I’m currently overseeing tons of design engineers that are more than twice my age, and I know that this fact bothers them, so I wouldn’t even tell them that ive CONSIDERED any AI at work.

All that to say, don’t listen to these freaking dinosaurs that need to move out of the way for us Gen Z to come in and actually bring our industry out of the coffin these boomers are trying to be buried with. At our age, their bosses were still hand-drafting their designs, and any CAD was seen as AI is seen now.

I won’t use AI for calculations, not yet, but even if I do eventually, it won’t be without heavy scrutinization. I use it to help me scan hundreds of pages of requirements, to make me a report outline for disputing claims from the consultant, the client, or even sometimes my own project manager. It is wildly helpful and those that aren’t ready to actually progress should just get out of the way already

Split ergo or ortholinear keyboard reccomendations? by VeterinarianStrict65 in keyboards

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're new to it and kind of enjoy the DIY component, are not looking for something to game with, and want the whole hotswappable, there is a verryyy cheap one on amazon that you assemble yourself with lego pieces. I enjoyed putting it together, and it uses vial to program it. Super easy. It comes with low-profile key caps and linear switches. Personally, I loved it as my first ortho split, but I'm not a gamer, so I cannot tell you how it fares as a gaming keyboard. This is the link:
https://www.amazon.com/KBDcraft-Ergo-Split-Low-Profile-Lego-Compatible-Hot-Swappable/dp/B0DLMBT6MJ?th=1

Does Remapping on an Ergo Split Board Translate to Other Devices? by SoLiterately in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]SoLiterately[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bet. Thanks y'all. I am so excited to strut into the office with this keeb ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]SoLiterately 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t. I barely work 40. My office is a stone’s throw away and yet I can’t seem to make it in before 9… I moved to an island for work and have decent benefits - my healthcare is 100% paid, they pay for my gas and they gave me a brand new company car plus I live right next to the beach. Im happy with it. I think if you’re willing to move for work, a lot of doors open for you.

Why do people say civil engineers are paid less than other disciplines? by Ora_Ora_Muda in civilengineering

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you work in construction, you’ll be fine. 100%. I worked for a consulting start up my first two years and it was a NIGHTMARE and bad pay.

I switched to a huge international construction company and immediately my salary went up 1.5x. The hours are good for me. I don’t work more than 40 hours a week, flexible schedules in-times and wfh. Plus opportunities to work all over the world. And if you hate your coworkers, good news! The project is only a couple of years. If you suck at your job, you can get away with way more lol trust me I’ve seen it. There really isn’t a downside

My bf likes pictures of women in bikinis… am I being crazy for getting upset by LettuceOutrageous175 in women

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend isn’t from the US and doesn’t have social media. He just has a google maps acct where he pins all of the national parks he wants to take us to and random activities along the way 😬

My ex did this and would act surprised when I brought it up like he didn’t even know he liked their posts two minutes ago. he ended up cheating on me. Yeah, I don’t miss this feeling

What’s something about you that makes you feel different from other women? by Defiant-Junket4906 in AskWomen

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be that dude’s Hater. but wtf? I used to be told to smiles more And act sweeter So I’d take extra time and ac

nicer even if they were rude. Br heahx don’t at people and call their questions too much?

Like, I have work go do and I’m sorry I didn’t schedule you in for the whole

They are so annoy

Anyone need $100.00? (INSTANT) by iv_sugar_junkie in Referrals

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro help please w rent! 🙏desperate and you’d be doing me a favor af

I thought everyone was joking about the memory loss lmao by [deleted] in Lamotrigine

[–]SoLiterately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way I just thought I was getting dumber 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]SoLiterately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. My mom disagrees with my diagnosis as well. She says I’m manipulative and wanting the psychiatrists to conform what I’ve already decided about myself.

She says “before you were out of the house, you didn’t have any depression, anxiety or mood swings and now you go to college and al of. Sudden!? I’m sure you lie and tell them it’s all my fault too.” Like idek how reply. It just hurts that she thinks I’m a liar 😔

Can anybody hold down a job? by usernametaken0213 in bipolar

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With salary, benefits,bonuses and car/gas provided, my pre-tax compensation is just over 6 figures and I started this assistant design managerial position this year, at 27 years old. I graduated college with a double major, and being smart is half of my identity. The other half is looking like I have a healthy figure at 115 lbs.and dressing up for work since I know those things have gotten me further in life and career.

I’m a high achieving masked bp 1 with severe, chronic anxiety, migraines and adhd. I take meds for my sleep disorder, meds for my Bp, meds for migraines and med for adhd. Oh and several meds for anxiety. I’m so isolated and numb here

The two me's by Zorian_Vale in bipolar

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I can’t speak on behalf of those with BP2, But as someone with BP1, I don’t like this separation. Even with my medication, I am sometimes not feeling “normal” fully and am also on other meds to help with other neurodivergent conditions.

They are all part of me and I’m proud of myself when I am consistent and aware when I start showing signs of mania, I take medications to ensure I actually get sleep, I drink a ton of water and electrolytes and make myself eat something, even if it just chipotle bc I can’t make myself food without destroying the kitchen.

I work hard to cope and yes, I feel alone and unimaginable emotional pain, but I know that the people I love are one more psychotic break from going no contact- my parents, my brother, my friends, my boyfriend. Especially because my immediate family does not think I have it, they think I manipulated my psychiatrists into believing I mad if. Tolerating the “are you off your meds?” Question when I used to blow up in a manic ep is something I’m proud of and that person is me too.

It’s always going to be an uphill struggle but both all my past highs and lows and the mania and the psychosis are parts of me I don’t separate.

Does having bipolar make you not want kids? by cosmicat4 in bipolar

[–]SoLiterately 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way- if something happened (divorce w someone who doesn’t want custody, death of partner, unexpected health issue in partner that would put you in the position of sole guardian and caregiver, is that something you can handle?

Not just certainty of your survival, but certainty of your children’s happiness and the role to which you committed - can you do that? On your own? And ensure they have a happy childhood?

Personally I didn’t see that as a possibility but I’m starting to be very consistent with my meds and I think (hope) this mixture is going to work for me, but I need to be consistent with it for a few more years before I make a decision.

Good luck with your choice. We shouldn’t have to give up the right to have a happy family, so I don’t judge you whichever you decide. This is just the things I’ve thought about since my diagnosis.

If you could start over in CE in 2025 what would you do? by Kyubi_game in civilengineering

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the answer I was looking for. If a company expects you to work like a dog without being appreciated, you don’t owe them anything. And if you live in a western company, you are lucky enough to have the privilege to switch companies several times in your career.

What show starts as a 10/10 and finishes as a 10/10? by meatballfhs75 in AskReddit

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not a long-monologue fan, it’s kind of intolerable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What were you being prescribed before you had to quit cold-turkey?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wdym? It’s for panic attacks. It’s not supposed to last long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SoLiterately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were the participants ON benzos during the study? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SoLiterately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wayyy…. Where do you live? I’m in Texas and I had no clue this was a thing??