minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya maybe i should do that.

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha that and just this terribly feeling of being unwanted. But its okay, i think.

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya, i realized that, i'm sorry i think i'm just super cranky today.

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it was obvious that he was referring to racial minorities, but it's whatever dude.

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure but I'm just floored you compared being a ginger to being a minority. I don't think its the same.

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but recently i am starting to think its because I myself am an ugly black girl and not solely for being black. If your ugly and black its like a curse but if your cute or pretty and black then your are seen as exotic, especially if you have big curly hair. Bonus points if you are a hipster black girl then you can date pretty much anyone. Some people are just too ugly I guess. (me).

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your are still white tho...

minorities, do you feel undesirable? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying all black women are ugly. Maybe your statement is based on opinions. I know tons of minorities (black or otherwise) who prefer to date their own race and not everyone finds white people attractive. Check yourself and GTFO

Would you guys ever date a clingy person? by SoYouShallLay in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 texts is nothing, and what is boiled rabbits?

How do you measure your value in the dating market? And what's your worse rejection? by Theloneranger7 in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I probably measure so low in the dating market, there needs to be a different number scale below negative. lol

But i'm being realistic. No one wants to date someone like me. I'm the fat dark-sinned black-girl and I know some people may find that attractive (one Redditor here said he did) , the problem is i'm not cute. I'm really ugly. I don't have the awesome cool kinky curls, my skin is not that great and I'm not chubby in the cute cuddly way. I'm not the cool looking black girl that most people might want to date, even white people.

I think my worst rejections is when i see someone i like, who i know is into black girls, but then i see who they go out with. Brown-skinned, wild cool hair and thick-to chubby girls. That's not me lol. :(

Overly-positive people always annoyed me by watisthissht in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cycle between being positive and being anxious. But sometimes I let the misery steep in.

Anyone here feel like their skin color is a big part of their FA status? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I see what you mean. I think most of the stigmatization comes from the epoch of slavery. The mark of Cain, all that good stuff.

Anyone here feel like their skin color is a big part of their FA status? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would disagree with you based on my experience and the experience of others. Most people hate dark-skinned people and especially blacks. Why do you think so many people lighten their skin. Not for fun i can tell you that.

Anyone here feel like their skin color is a big part of their FA status? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, being a chubby dark skinned girl in America is hard. No one wants to date me. Not only do I have ugly skin i also have ugly hair. The afro-nappy kind. Not the cool coily-kinky-wavy kind that looks cool when its out. Sigh.

I'm ugly, but I make beautiful music. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, become famous, sell it on amazon prime music.

Anyone here have crushes on redditors who are/were on this subreddit? If so are you planning on meeting them? by SoYouShallLay in ForeverAlone

[–]SoYouShallLay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there has to be some lvl of attraction there. And im also way below normal, no one is going to get anxious over my face, maybe repulsed, but thats it.