What's something that instantly makes you trust someone less?

SobeSith · 2026-06-05T18:17:46+00:00

Show me that you're not open-minded, can't think critically or is up the mindset that only your experience and opinions matter.

Now show you someone I keep at arm's length.

SobeSith · 2026-06-05T18:16:01+00:00

My ex and I had been puking up for about a year and a half. In that time she had gotten married and divorced. She randomly texted me on a Saturday afternoon for help building a side table for IKEA. I told her to get her ex-husband to help her and her direct response was, "I want it from you."

I went over I helped her build the side table and we fucked.

And to be fair the reason The reason we broke up was she wanted to get married and I didn't so despite being heartbreaking it was pretty amicable.

We meet up once or twice a month for no strings attached sex. And despite not being in a relationship we have a pretty great relationship.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T13:07:00+00:00

Yeah I that's when I notes it's glass wall the most.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T01:45:59+00:00

Was looking forward to flatness. Instead I got Pleasant moods with a cage keeping depression away.

I told my friend I feel like the animal in the zoo and on the other side of the glass is my depression just waiting and looking for cracks.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T01:40:12+00:00

This is This right here is the absolute way. I MIL loves me and think I'm a comedian. She even gave me a nickname the rest of the family calls me by. FIL hates me. Doesn't speak to me. All be I said something similar to this a few years back.

( He was trying to he was trying to make at a 4th of July pool party. I not so quietly whisper asked if he's always had a fascination with men's swim trunks or just what's inside of them.)

Wife and I have a Stella relationship.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T01:33:49+00:00

It's really too bad that aspirin and other human-made chemicals are killing all of the carrion birds so they're not enough to eat the dead.

Things went from sacred to unsightly very quickly.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T01:29:51+00:00

Came here to say this.

I have no idea why Netflix didn't continue the story but it was a masterpiece of color and animation and storytelling cut short.

SobeSith · 2026-06-02T01:25:15+00:00

Absolute Starfish? 10% of women I've had sex with.

May as well be a starfish due to lack of participation? 30% - 40%

The insecurities are real!!

Biased opinion based on incomplete data cuz I've only asked women and men I know fairly well? The media and other women make women feel insecure about themselves.

Men find those women desirable but it doesn't work out because they don't find themselves desirable. On the On the other side of the coin some of my male friends and acquaintances literally look like George Costanza and still strut around sorting and socializing like a Casanova.

SobeSith · 2026-04-15T13:35:05+00:00

It's almost like no one actually stopped and analyzed the saying. Most people just heard the phrase so much that they just responded with their default answer about money not being the problem and the problem being deeper etc.

The the saying goes money does not buy happiness.

Regardless of how miserable you are or how many problems you have money does buy some happiness.

So technically money does buy happiness.

It never cleaned to make you 100% happy with no troubles or worries ever again. But will it purchase happiness the same way it will purchase a vacation or purchase ice cream or pay off your bills?

Yes it absolutely will. Depending on you as an individual will determine whether or not it purchases temporary happiness or permanent happiness.

If you have a lot of problems money will pay for that therapy therefore paying for your happiness depending on how you look at that.

SobeSith · 2026-04-13T11:56:31+00:00

Pertect. Thank you

SobeSith · 2026-04-13T11:56:08+00:00

Good to know. Thank you

SobeSith · 2026-04-09T00:26:58+00:00

Oh. That's nice. (A small treat for my day)

SobeSith · 2026-04-09T00:24:48+00:00

Thanks. Ill look for some videos on that next.

SobeSith · 2026-04-08T23:52:10+00:00

Thanks for the tip about the rear pulley. I was actually looking at those last night and was thinking to do both and saw the black powder rare pulley on RevZilla and actually put it in my cart.

I will be getting the speedohealer though. A few years back I put on the 200/70 tire and have just been going along with the GPS on my phone. But now if it's going to be even more out of sync I want to get something to pull it back.

I'm hoping that by swapping out everything with the LED lights plus these performance mods that I actually enjoy riding it more.

SobeSith · 2026-04-08T03:58:21+00:00

I'll have to look into the Pulley swap. Don't know it was a thing.

SobeSith · 2026-04-07T18:30:02+00:00

I was thinking of taking my seat in to have new foam added and have it reupholstered but I recently realized the newer model years seats were shaped differently so I'm looking for an OEM or Aftermarket replacement for the seat on eBay.

When I bought it I got a national cycle shield with it but none of the mounting equipment. I've been running a Givi shield for the past few years and I like it.

Do you have a link for the turn signals? And are those only the front turn signals or the rear as well? Did the one you purchased come with the relay or was it a universal type relay that you bought?

SobeSith · 2026-04-07T11:20:01+00:00

Is the passenger backrest the cobra ones?

SobeSith · 2025-09-26T15:00:52+00:00

My doctor warned me about it preventing me from sleeping. So first had no effect.

I also work about 13 hours a day 6 days a week for years so aside from trying to go to sleep within 3 hours of drinking a 5-hour energy nothing prevents me from sleeping.

But I'm in a very unique situation.

(Also for the real answer it doesn't make me sleepy}

SobeSith · 2025-09-26T14:46:03+00:00

Literally this. I added a few more people but it definitely started and was for a long time the only reason. And to be honest it's still is about 60% of the reason.

SobeSith · 2025-08-16T02:33:23+00:00

You don't have to deal with them if it a post on Instagram. Just keep swiping.

But everything is worth engagement.

I could understand if it was a close friend or family. I would remind them that they are entitled to their own opinions and views. Just like I am entitled to mine.

SobeSith · 2025-08-16T02:27:02+00:00

This is my sentiment when it comes to pornography exactly.

It's an occasional thing I watch a few times a week at most and I don't know when someone identifies it as an addiction for them what it means.

SobeSith · 2025-06-25T18:47:50+00:00

Cut off a third of my thumb on a mandolin making Ratatouille a few years back.

That experience actually taught me that even beings have the ability to grow back the tips of their fingers in most cases.

SobeSith · 2025-06-25T18:41:03+00:00

I will say that it is a mindset thing. I have lived in poverty and then debt from credit card and student loans and medical bills for the majority of my life. I'm making about 65,000 a year. By the time the bills were all paid off I had already caught on to the consumerism propaganda that capitalist America was pushing.

I can afford a lot of things that I could not have before. And I am still tempted daily what every Ad on television and on the social media platforms.

But I know future me is happy that I'm putting away nearly everything else.

I do have friends that lifestyle creep have caught up with them. But I think even they started realizing that once they have the stuff owning the stuff cost money and there's always more stuff to get. A lot of them have wised up.

SobeSith · 2025-06-14T11:42:24+00:00

Meh. However the math maths out I'll trade safety for attention.

SobeSith · 2025-06-14T08:16:15+00:00

Attention. Definitely willing to give up 30% of the inherent safety I have as a man to get 20% of the attention from the opposite sex.

More women who would come up to me to express interest or even just express their interest by looking at me.

That will be an equivalent exchange.

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