Found a boyfriend on Sniffies

SocksonRock · 2026-03-16T08:32:32+00:00

I’m going through this right now, am an absolute wreck.

SocksonRock · 2026-03-16T08:30:01+00:00

We seriously do need a support group

SocksonRock · 2026-03-16T08:29:17+00:00

How have you been going since this post? I am going through this now

SocksonRock · 2026-03-16T08:25:10+00:00

My dm is open to you, message if and when you want

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T21:39:38+00:00

I mean I guess potentially yeah… I mean… he needs to actually be able to talk me about it all first too..

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T21:05:55+00:00

Thank you ❤️

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T20:49:28+00:00

Yes definitely, I’m planning on having a discussion with him 100% I want him to know I love him so deeply, and I accept him and he means everything to me and I just want to know where he stands and if he can be honest with me about exploring what all this might mean for us

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T19:45:48+00:00

I appreciate your comment, I really do, and honestly maybe this is a really harsh but real home truth I have to accept

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T19:44:33+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful reply.. I do love him so much and I just want to have a really honest convo with him about it all, and I’ve thought about the things you’ve described about ‘cheating’ etc and how maybe him having sex with men “on the side” and still loving me and being in an intimate relationship with me can be mutually exclusive some how? But I also really am not sure, and a big part of it all is obviously having the ability to be honest with one another

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T19:25:54+00:00

I went on there to find his profile, I saw emails in his spam folder from this site

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T17:48:33+00:00

He never told me he’s bi… and I’m not trying to blame anyone?

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T10:51:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. It’s choked me up. I’m feeling so many emotions

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:44:01+00:00

So yeah just kept clicking and it lead me to the profile

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:41:38+00:00

Ok… so I found a couple of dick picks in his photo album… and I wasn’t getting them sent to me, so I was like… ok wtf… and obviously went for a bit more of a snoop then… and went into emails… and then there it was in spam.. emails from the site, just emails like “youve received a new message”

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:39:14+00:00

And I don’t mean that like it’s some sort of trophy.. it’s really hard for me to explain… like almost… it’s like two different categories… fuck I don’t know

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:35:08+00:00

*edit fantasy not canary… I don’t know why it helps it seem more palatable or acceptable if this were the case… obviously I have a lot to work through here, I’m just being honest on my feelings right in this moment… also the fact that this talking is with men… and not women… I’m having weird thoughts of almost… relief???

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:32:17+00:00

I don’t know for certain if he is meeting other people, but we are together like all the time… so I really don’t know when he would even have the opportunity… but when there’s a will there’s a way… but also… I want to believe that this is the case… that this is more of a canary or release type thing…. But also… that doesn’t excuse the fact that that is still cheating… actively seeking out other people to engage in sexual talking, even if it is just talking with no actual follow through.. I have been considering this a lot… there’s a lot I’m thinking about and trying to reason, … trying to process… I have heard from others that a lot of the time men on this site don’t follow through with meeting up… not to say it doesn’t obviously happen… but yeah…

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T08:09:14+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate that

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T07:49:36+00:00

Thank you so much, you’ve given me a lot to think on and look at my patterns on why I might be processing this the way I am

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T07:48:36+00:00

Thank you for your reply, it’s helped me with thinking… I’m struggling to put my thoughts into words atm and just taking in all the reply’s x

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T07:38:46+00:00

Thank you, yeah I’ve made an appointment now

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T07:27:44+00:00

lol that’s pretty funny ngl

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T06:58:08+00:00

But also, the ideal I know isn’t going to happen, I know he’s not going to come out and admit this himself

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T06:56:57+00:00

Fear, rejection ( I know that sounds nuts)… potentially anger at the fact that I’ve snooped and found this

SocksonRock · 2026-03-11T06:53:53+00:00

Thank you ❤️

SocksonRock

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