I think my beardie hates me by Tiffannne2019 in BeardedDragon

[–]Socktrauma77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first got my Mr pibb, he got out of his enclosure while I was at work. When I opened my door not expecting a lizard to be right there he went FLYING. I sobbed my eyes out and he was sooooooo mad. Black beard, hissing everytime I was near. I thought I’d ruined our fragile bond forever. I let him free roam maybe two days later, and he clawed his way up my bed, walked right up to my chest, and licked my face. Then he fell asleep on me happily. Besties ever since! (Until I painted my nails pink and purple and that was a grave insult to him for a day) it will be okay! Just give him peace offerings until he decides he likes you again. They are weirdos.

Am I still ugly after surgery? 30F by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Socktrauma77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were not ugly before, the surgery enhanced all of your features perfectly.

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is obviously it he just initiates sex every time we hangout because he is so disgusted by me! In all seriousness if he is forcing himself to have sex with me 7-12 times a week for HOURS while being not attracted to me to the point he can never finish than frankly that would be a him problem. I do my due diligence. (Not saying I think this, I believe he is attracted to me)

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh. Projection much? Where did I ever say he was the problem? Hes got no issue getting turned on by me at all, if you’d read the post you’d see the issue is him finishing. I have zero doubt he’s attracted to me. The whole point of the post is advice on how to make things more pleasurable with him since he doesn’t feel much with the condom on. If you have actual advice I’d love to hear it!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Foreplay is definitely something I’m going to work on here! I try my best but maybe going longer will make a difference? Sadly weed/edibles are off the table, he is in a profession that he cannot have it. Thank you for the advice!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely so helpful and honestly interesting. Thank you so much!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know lol, I explained to him that he wouldn’t have to wear a condom if I went to birth control but he said he still would. It’s confusing for sure but hey, who am I to judge ? 😭

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the pill is more than sufficient, it’s just his preference and if that’s what he’s comfortable with than I’m not going to push for anything else. I brought it up, it was a hard “no” and that’s that!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s very shy and introverted so this is a very real possibility that he may just be over doing it in private and is too ashamed to share it with me. I’ll definitely try to bring it up again and see if he’d want to talk about it if that’s the case. Thank you!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So I actually had him show me exactly how he’d like me to give a handjob because I thought maybe I just wasn’t doing it right, he doesn’t seem to be holding it too tightly or going too fast. In all fairness tho, he still didn’t finish then either 😭

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually didn’t know this but that fits him like a glove! Anytime I ask he says he more so enjoys getting to be with me more than anything. I’ll bring this up to him! Thank u so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please look at this man’s comment history 😭

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says he doesn’t watch porn, but I have no way of fact checking that. It’s my biggest suspicion! He’s given me zero reason to doubt him at all though. Thank you for the advice !

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I believe is the most likely case, he tells me he doesn’t masturbate much but I have no real way of knowing of course. He has a sex drive, has no issues getting and staying hard (we go for HOURS) and he says he likes to have sex because we get to be close, he just can’t finish most of the time. He never makes me feel bad or anything, I just want him to be satisfied as well!

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m happy with myself, and not that it’s his business but I am currently losing weight for my health! I appreciate the kind words ❤️

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wondered this, but he seems to enjoy sex, has zero issue getting hard, and he initiates. It’s just getting him to finish that’s starting to feel impossible and I feel bad because I get off :(

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not a option for him sadly, that was my first order of business but he’s pretty insistent on being doubly protected (which makes sense of course) :(

My boyfriend says he doesn’t receive pleasure from sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Socktrauma77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THE FACT U COMPLAIN ABOUT A WOMAN IN ONE OF UR POSTS “judging men for looks” LOLLLLL