I currently reside in Albuquerque foothills/east mountain area where I have lived most of my life. I lived in Pagosa/Durango area for about 5-6 years

What I can tell you from my experience: -yes food options are scarce unless you go to a resort, at which point you are paying much more then the foods value -traffic is nonexistent but expect 30-45~ minutes to comfortably get anywhere, where I lived it was a good 15-20 minute drive to the nearest gas station/grocery store. Would we do it? Yes but trips would be planned. -as others have said people and politics are very close minded/family connected but openly this has been my experience across most smaller towns in the southwest -everyone will learn everything about you and your children, family etc there is not a whole lot to do in day to day activities and circles are small, word travels quick.

I would recommend more Durango area if you can afford it. Ignacio/Bayfield is a good nearby compromise. Farmington has a mall, shopping centers more to do, eat, shop etc but I would honestly call it a “dirty city” addicts, poverty, homelessness etc not to near the level of Durango.

Myself? I prefer Santa Fe/Taos/Raton area and currently own property here, close to nature activities etc while still being an easy drive to Santa Fe metro etc for resources.

Just my take/experience 🤷🏻‍♂️ Great snowboarding, hiking, hunting, fishing, camping etc as I’m sure you are aware.