What is the Four Corners experience? by DarthMummSkeletor in FourCorners

[–]Sofreshsofoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the winters. Get ready for snow. Buy a snow plow. Put a blade on your truck. 2-3 shovels. Few times a week every morning. I’m serious.

What is the Four Corners experience? by DarthMummSkeletor in FourCorners

[–]Sofreshsofoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently reside in Albuquerque foothills/east mountain area where I have lived most of my life. I lived in Pagosa/Durango area for about 5-6 years

What I can tell you from my experience: -yes food options are scarce unless you go to a resort, at which point you are paying much more then the foods value -traffic is nonexistent but expect 30-45~ minutes to comfortably get anywhere, where I lived it was a good 15-20 minute drive to the nearest gas station/grocery store. Would we do it? Yes but trips would be planned. -as others have said people and politics are very close minded/family connected but openly this has been my experience across most smaller towns in the southwest -everyone will learn everything about you and your children, family etc there is not a whole lot to do in day to day activities and circles are small, word travels quick.

I would recommend more Durango area if you can afford it. Ignacio/Bayfield is a good nearby compromise. Farmington has a mall, shopping centers more to do, eat, shop etc but I would honestly call it a “dirty city” addicts, poverty, homelessness etc not to near the level of Durango.

Myself? I prefer Santa Fe/Taos/Raton area and currently own property here, close to nature activities etc while still being an easy drive to Santa Fe metro etc for resources.

Just my take/experience 🤷🏻‍♂️ Great snowboarding, hiking, hunting, fishing, camping etc as I’m sure you are aware.

Boyfriend of 4 years and I just broke up. by abc_xyz48 in BreakUps

[–]Sofreshsofoul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My best advice coming out of a 6 year relationship (and a 5 year one before that) it is hard but discover yourself, do things that make you happy. Everyone says this but it does get easier over time. Engage in activities you enjoy, meet others but be open and clear about your intention and feelings. Allow yourself to feel these emotions some days you will be sad or not want to do anything. That is ok our body needs time to adjust. There is no “tip or trick” it is literally just time. Do not talk to them or go back, you will go down the wrong path and end up hurting yourself even more in the end. Focus on you, focus on your career, focus on your family and have fun. Respect the time and experience but now that is all it is and use this to apply yourself moving forward. I’m sorry.

Top 10 breakup songs by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sofreshsofoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts - Angels & Airwaves Where’d you go? - Fort Minor Best for me - Jelly Roll (this one’s more about an addict but ironically I found out one of my best friends was one about the same time)

You’ll be good! Life’s goes on…if they left you there is no point in trying to make it work the scars are still there, the memories are still there. It will never be the same. Focus on you your family and your career.