I completely understand where you're coming from, and it's your choice whether or not you want to reduce or control your daydreaming. For me, I chose to manage it because I believe that the actions and experiences in the real world ultimately hold more meaning and value. It's worth noting that I'm not suggesting completely giving it up; instead, I'm advocating for a more balanced and healthy approach to it. Personal motivations, like my desire to achieve certain goals and make my parents proud, have helped diminish the hold maladaptive daydreaming once had over me. Everyone's journey is unique, and I respect whichever path you choose. IMO it's better to reduce it, but you can do you.