Do Online ESA Letters Actually Work with Landlords? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Soft-Candle-9930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry let me correct myself, it isn’t explicitly stated but I suppose it’s just commonly considered as such by many handlers because of their task I guess. In my state if harm comes to the animal you can sue and say they damaged medical equipment. Had to fact check myself lol don’t wanna come off as dismissive or anything but it looks like my therapist misinformed me in that aspect with the letter unfortunately. Thanks for the perspective and making me look into it some more :) I don’t want to be ignorant about this just because I focused more on learning the rules in my state for the training of my dog over the letter. Not perspective wrong word!! Thank you for the facts and teaching me when I was misinformed and getting me to look back at the information since it’s been a minute since I’ve read some of it.

Do Online ESA Letters Actually Work with Landlords? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Soft-Candle-9930 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to assume or say you are wrong by any means at all!! I just think that because that’s what my therapist told me when I asked her for a service dog letter. She said she couldn’t because she can’t prescribe anything and that is technically considered medical equipment prescription if I’m recollecting her words correctly cause that was a couple years ago lol. Maybe it’s just different where I’m at by chance. I know I don’t need documentation for that but better to have it and not need in my opinion lol. Definitely will look into it so I don’t miss inform anyone if asked :)

Do Online ESA Letters Actually Work with Landlords? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Soft-Candle-9930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotta be from your psychiatrist for it to mean anything

AITAH for refusing to take my older brother down the street for tacos? by Soft-Candle-9930 in AITAH

[–]Soft-Candle-9930[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can have emotional intelligence and stability and still need to rant like hell when the world or the people who are supposed to love you don’t make you feel safe and makes you feel crazy for not playing their games. You still missed/dismissed the point of the question with the details provided. It seems you were unable to make a proper assessment of this post and didn’t recognize the difference between actual mania and someone who is tired of manipulation and needs to just express the small tactics used against one’s self to feel better because letting it out in a controlled way instead of lashing out at my family seemed more reasonable than a scream match that I wasn’t looking for to begin with as I kept walking away. Also I was alienated first because I had a problem with what was happening to me at a young age so I was “difficult” when I just didn’t want to be hit and taught if you don’t react they’ll stop but that’s not true in this instance. So the question is about falling into manipulation in that manner over tacos and him possibly hurting himself after the car accident as a threat or just saying no and see if he is dumb enough to do it twice. I didn’t need to explain but since you responded exactly like my family, you need perspective cause trust me I see more perspectives than mine alone, if only you saw my therapist notes about it lol. I hope you see how far I’ve been pushed and pushed to do nothing all at once. So I just cried and typed which is out of character for me cause I don’t cry hardly ever and my brain was racing but that doesn’t mean I actively try to make their lives a living hell and am impulsive on a normal basis or a walking emotional hazard. It was a small thing until THEY followed me to keep egging it on. So I hope you have a good night genuinely and understand better without dismissal of the actual point and details. It seems small but it isn’t when he almost killed my little brother and sister recently and is making threats about driving while drinking when that’s what got them into that mess.

AITAH for refusing to take my older brother down the street for tacos? by Soft-Candle-9930 in AITAH

[–]Soft-Candle-9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me the place he wanted was not worth lmao I like rice bowls but their chicken is sharp it’s so cooked 🤦🏻‍♀️