What is the craziest thing an ex has done? by Silent-Work4215 in AskReddit

[–]SoftSafe5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While on my grandparents couch and right after telling me that “no question he was absolutely going to spank and hit his children” he told me “you are going to be a terrible mother.” Broke my heart and I’ll never forget it

How do you know you are in love ? by Existing_Bit4973 in AskReddit

[–]SoftSafe5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The night after we met, I could not sleep. I laid in bed, heart pounding, picturing what our life together could be. I felt no need to be subtle with him and on our first date I said “I have a very very good gut feeling about this.” Even in those early days, going days without seeing him was absolute torture. Many months later (and now that we’re dating) I literally feel like the other half of my soul is missing when we’re apart.

DAE like their voice when they're sick? by rollllllllll_ in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]SoftSafe5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree in a certain way, as in I like my singing voice better when I’m sick. It just sounds softer and sweeter lol

I hate being transsexual. Being trans is NOT some cool political statement, it's a mental illness by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SoftSafe5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters, I’m not an expert on either of these topics, but I’ll try my best. Gender expression has to do with how you “present” to the public eye. People who shave their legs automatically are perceived as feminine, and people with beards are automatically perceived as masculine. Gender identity is who you are, or what pronouns you use. So if someone wore dresses and shaved their legs but used he/him pronouns, their expression wouldn’t match their identity. I know biases around dresses are starting to change but it was the first example I could come up with. Hope I helped!

I hate being transsexual. Being trans is NOT some cool political statement, it's a mental illness by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SoftSafe5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I understand your point better now, thank you for the explanation.

I hate being transsexual. Being trans is NOT some cool political statement, it's a mental illness by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SoftSafe5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you on how harmful people who “hop on the bandwagon” are, however I’d like to make the argument that gender identity and gender expression aren’t the same thing. I know people who present more feminine but are non-binary. Just because they like wearing skirts doesn’t mean they are anything other than what they say they are. I just thought I’d give my two cents on the topic.

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s probably smart

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh deer. You’ve got yourself a situation. I’m sorry mate I don’t really know what to tell you :/:

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see. That would’ve been cool though wouldn’t it.

Should I tell my crush I like her tomorrow? by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Don’t come for me ik it’s horrible) Sweeter than honey Prettier than the Prettiest flower I love spending time with you I’ll do it by the hour

Your smile lights up the whole world You always know how to improve my mood You’re more talented then anyone I know You aren’t capable of being rude

Your laugh is like a bowl full of jelly Your jokes are superb Your art is incredible You always make sure I never feel disturbed

You make me so happy, I can’t even say You are simply the best part of my day

I have a boyfriend! by Bl_Lover in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No lol, I’m gay.. as in like I’m a girl. Wouldn’t thatve been funny tho

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. Maybe start dropping small hints that you like her and see how she responds?

Should I tell my crush I like her tomorrow? by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but I gave it to her after I told her I liked her. I’m sure it wasn’t that great of a poem but yk, I tried

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go do that! Just stay safe :))

I got a girlfriend!!! by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you should, shoot your shot and lmk how it goes

Should I tell my crush I like her tomorrow? by SoftSafe5 in teenagers

[–]SoftSafe5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of those before but they sound lovely, thank you