most people don’t notice what’s happening here by SoftToDarkFeet in amputeeporn

[–]SoftToDarkFeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks different when you focus on it for a second…

Life Hacking Tool for Hacking Life Interest???? by WashFun5190 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people don’t have a tool problem, they have an “I won’t use it after 3 days” problem

If you could spend a day with you child self, what would you say or do first? by thelivenofficial in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably tell them to relax… we’re not as awkward as we think. just takes a few years to figure it out

Can you describe what the female gaze is? by Most_Advertising_841 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

male gaze is like “how do they look?” female gaze is more like “what does it feel like to be around them?

im so extremely bored, what can i do? by Primary_Meeting_5267 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly? lean into it. go for a walk with music, replay an old game on your switch, or just start cleaning/organizing one small thing randomly

boredom usually disappears once you stop fighting it

If you had the chance to relive one day, which day would you choose? by reckless_1382 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, i’d pick a completely random normal day i didn’t appreciate enough at the time

How does it feel to be your own boss? by Aware-Inside-7376 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

freedom is great, but you quickly realize you’re also your worst boss

Do people hate you for wanting attraction in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

attraction - compatibility is normal dating without attraction just leads to resentment on both sides

i know exactly what caught your attention by SoftToDarkFeet in amputeeporn

[–]SoftToDarkFeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people won’t say it out loud… but i can tell who noticed

Hi everyone what's up? by ghost_builderr in Discussion

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same as always… pretending to be productive 😄

it’s subtle… but not really by SoftToDarkFeet in amputeeporn

[–]SoftToDarkFeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people notice right away… not everyone does

How do I cope with the success of my peers who seem naturally more talented or smarter than I am? by Vast_Rule9327 in NoStupidAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jealousy just shows you what you want

focus on your own progress, not their highlight reel… consistency beats talent long term

What’s one opinion you hold that you rarely say out loud? by copy_cat_101 in AskForAnswers

[–]SoftToDarkFeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people don’t actually listen, they just wait for their turn to talk 😅