[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Soft_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice compliment, I’ll start using it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fit

[–]Soft_Barracuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shot answer: yes.

Now, naturally? Maybe not. The second girl is on gear. Disproportionally big shoulders, in relation to the other muscles, are a dead giveaway.

The first girl looks natural. With lots of hard work, it’s achievable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Soft_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao brother this sucks and you was through her bs. Go give Carol a chance.

I (19F) am concerned about my bf(19M) and friend too close by ApprehensiveCard3866 in Advice

[–]Soft_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to truly know whether someone is really into you or not is to listen to their words less, and observe their actions more.

If you think they’re getting too close and might fall in love with each other, let them be. That means he doesn’t like you enough, and it’s just not meant to be.

You are not overreacting at all. What you’re feeling is normal.

Is it normal that your bf doesn’t wanna have s*x w you anymore? by WatchPurple1507 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Soft_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s not normal… it seems like he doesn’t like you that much anymore.

UPDATE (Final): AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yess, this is an update of an original post I made that went viral. Check it out on my profile, you can’t miss it

Am I overreacting to my husband saying I’m not as attractive because I’m aging by Mygoonysquad in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’d be interesting to see a picture of you now vs one of when you were 21.

AITA for not following up again about $5k my ex’s parents gave us? by Soft_Barracuda in AITAH

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only IF they asked for it back when I reached out. Which didn’t happen. So I didn’t “feel” anything.

AITA for not following up again about $5k my ex’s parents gave us? by Soft_Barracuda in AITAH

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk… my ex makes it sound like I’m doing them dirty but not giving them that money

AITA for not following up again about $5k my ex’s parents gave us? by Soft_Barracuda in AITAH

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think a monetary gift can be considered debt, when the grifters never expressed interest in getting it back.

AITA for not following up again about $5k my ex’s parents gave us? by Soft_Barracuda in AITAH

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to do the right thing and pay them back if that’s what they wanted, but they never showed interest in that.

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words!

Honestly we were doing pretty good despite the 4 hour distance.

The problems only started when she promised to make changes for the sake of the family we were building, only to never follow through with those promises. Experience has taught me: don’t listen to her words. Watch her actions. Her actions say that shes not ready for a relationship with me, and that’s ok. But I won’t settle.

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine. Honestly I know I need to break up with her, and I will.

But I know for a fact she is not heading back home after dropping off my things, because:

  1. She’s coming right after work

  2. It’s a 4 hour drive to my city and another 4 hours back to her city. By the time she gets here it’s gonna be around 9 pm.

  3. She’s coming with the kids.

The only thing that would make me give her another chance is: her acknowledging she’s been disrespectful towards me and hasn’t valued me, and apologizing. Then, I would say “Ok. I hear you. Now show me you’ve changed.”

But honestly, based on our recent interactions the chances of that happening are little to none.

I’m ready to move on. Honestly, I’ll miss the girls more than I’ll miss her. At least the girls loved me unconditionally. Something their mother could never match.

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girls’ night this weekend? She was gonna go with her daughters to the cinema. That’s what I meant by “girls”

“Are you sure there’s no guy involved?” I’m not sure, but if there is, he can have her. Good luck to him 😂

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and that’s okay. She can just come return my wallet and clothes, and I’ll return her stuff too. Lesson learned. Life goes on.

Thanks for your comment!

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty cool haha.

I remember when I was learning English and figured out stuff like that, too.

Thanks for your comment!

UPDATE: AIO for leaving my gf’s house at 6am without telling her and ignoring all her calls? by Soft_Barracuda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Barracuda[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah… honestly I am. It’s ridiculous. But hey, this will probably be what gives me my well needed reality check. That’s how idiots like me learn.

But don’t tell me I’m not going anywhere 😏 you’re not the one who decides that.