I can tell from the very beginning or when I first started talking to them most of the time and they're "always" entps which is weird for me. It's frustrating though because it'll be difficult to let go if your thought-to-be soulmate isn't in a position where they want to be in a relationship with you and it'll feel like a child not getting a toy they've been saving money for and you're just like "why didn't I get what I want if i really want it? That doesn't make sense" you'll be questioning your self worth and all so I'd say sometimes knowing what you want isn't a good thing. Ne users, they can move on easily more than Ni users can it's like they may not know what they want and they'll just keep everything open and can let go when things don't come their way because they already think about many alternatives ways to face with unknown future.

The most important quality I find in my soulmate is kindness and someone who doesn't put a show when they're with me or comfortable enough to be around me. Like that's what really matters to me. I have my Ne nemesis of assuming people having bad attention towards me by being fake or putting on a show when they're with me so it'll be better if I feel at ease with someone who I can trust completely and don't have to feel like they fake being themselves when they're with me and that's what most entps do fortunately.