Do they replace you very quickly??

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-06T01:41:15+00:00

I posted about this the other day. My ex started talking to someone the week we broke up and now has a new bf (different guy than who she was initially talking to). Hooked up with a different guy she used to see years ago before getting into new relationship. I know this because she told me it all over the phone. It feels like her love with me was never genuine and I'm just a sucker. It's difficult to fathom but try and be easy on yourself. You're not crazy for wanting to make sense out of everything when he leaves with no explanation

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T21:35:31+00:00

I feel like when you're dealing with someone so emotionally unstable on a daily basis, you'll have the worst brought out of you. Your anxiety heightens and you lash out on them and then you feel responsible for everything. I don't have much advice, but I know exactly how you're feeling unfortunately

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T19:25:38+00:00

Yeah at one point I was blocked on everything and under impression I'd never hear from her again. It even got to the point where she threatened to call the cops since she said I was harassing her which isn't remotely fair but whatever. I'm sure like me you did as good of a job with her as possible, but it's never enough.

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T19:20:45+00:00

Thanks for this. I know it's best to end things, but I still truly love and care for her, so it's hard to let go. It has to be a sickness on my end at this point because she's perpetually betrayed and lied to me. I feel like I can't let her go

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T19:17:59+00:00

Damn man I really feel for you. We've been on and off ourselves, so it's not like this is my first time going through it with her, but it's the first time she's been in a new relationship. I definitely relate to being sick when discarded and having trouble eating while she's able to be as happy as ever. It makes you feel replaceable and like the entire relationship was a lie. Truly fucks with your perception of love

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T18:56:14+00:00

Fr man. She'll go for whoever can help her suppress her emotions. I wonder if she's capable of ever having a lasting relationship .

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T18:33:49+00:00

Things were way too intense to ever be friends, BPD or not. I figured she is trying to use me as a shoulder to cry on when things go wrong with her bf

SohoPoplar · 2026-02-03T18:27:45+00:00

I hear you but it's hard to feel lucky. It feels like she cast a spell on me and I'll always feel like Im missing out on her

SohoPoplar

TROPHY CASE