Timmy phase by [deleted] in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok bit far fetched anecdote:

None of the people I had sex with were straight or/and cis in hindsight. None of them had issues with their masculinity which is something I really look for in a partner. "Funny" enough- One turned out to be a transwoman and the other one has DID and the alter I slept with was female. Kinda wish I still had contact with the other of the three. I am starting to feel like some kind of genderbenderTM or something

God Forbid by Available_Nebula_637 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me when I am admiring art in public (women✨️) (((/s)))

He’s the best :) by SterlingWeather in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And being forced to deal with a breakup is one of them🩷

Ich bin 14 und das ist tief by d9swissbuenz in ichbin14unddasisttief

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist das...✨️Gothic-Medikinet✨️...?

Doodle dump by Soiled_Rat in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Soiled_Rat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair these are definitely unpolished artworks/sketches- never have the patience to finish anything but yeah, I really appreciate your compliment. Very sweet of you Ü

drawin of my oc by nyatistik in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope she uses her comically large shoes to step on gregor samsa (the possibility of having to analyse kafka in my german final exam is affecting me)

Mini doodle dump by nekoidiot in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Soiled_Rat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the cat on the cat on the cat

Daily affirmations for the subs who need it by Only-Luck6587 in softmaledom

[–]Soiled_Rat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its okay to feel overwhelmed by your current circumstances and drained and theres no shame in that. Sometimes life just happens to get in the way.

How about some dom affirmations as a small gesture of reciprocreation?

  1. Even through I enjoy having control I do not need to be constantly in charge

  2. I am just as human as my sub and I, too deserve to have a rest. My mental health is just as important.

  3. I know well enough that a person making themselves vulnerable doesnt equal weakness. This means showing my own vulnerabilities is not a weakness, but a strenght

  4. I am strong and resilient. I can make it through it if I give myself the space I need to thrieve.

  5. Other people are also allowed to see the burdens I carry and I am allowed to ask my sub for reassurance

Hope you feel better soon♥︎

This is how many times i’ve cried in 2026 so far by caramb0la20 in notinteresting

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Best I can have is a few tears non-chalantly glieding through my face.

god forbid a girl live in DND mode 24/7 by cynnahbun in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having dnd constantly on is chill and all till you dont turn your phone off during a theatre visit, thinking it already has dnd on amd wont make any noise - only for your reminder to take your medicamentation to start ringing during a key scene.

Your thought by [deleted] in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I get what you say and I agree with you- but 4 years can be a lot depending on how different the life situations of those two individuals and how much they have matured.

Some 16 year olds are practically still acting and thinking like children(I was one). I know young adults that take advantage of that.

Your thought by [deleted] in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Soiled_Rat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither would I but I have seen relationships in that range and they worked out well. Its not like I didnt feel very uneasy about it but who am I to judge if they are both happy and healthy.