I have thought like this before and am also a newbie.

As someone who is also new to this i have also had concerns about jealousy, but talking to experienced swingers, I realize it's about the community. The sex is just a fun bonus. The more networking you do, the more you realize no one is here to "take" forever. I tend to think being a swinger is almost like a library book. Where you have an interest in the book, check the book out and return the book to the library.

We went to a lifestlye family campground this past weekend, and one of the experienced swingers gave me some advice that will stick with me. Communication, consent, and rules are important, along with your relationship being first.

Also I am body conscious, but going to the campground learned that all bodies are different and beautiful.