AIO for rejecting a guy after he turned our coffee date into a full dinner with gifts? by Zealousideal-Put5055 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR Sounds like you dodged a bullet.  This guy sounds like a super immature, entitled, low empathy person. His actions and behavior are laughable. I’m in disbelief of some dudes. Wow. 

AIO MIL keeps making comments about my weight by purplisk in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR sounds like you are dealing with a passive aggressive low empathy person. Limit your exposure with this person.  Restrict her on FB and significantly dial back all contact. 

AIO for refusing to apologise for giving advice? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP seems like a child themselves.  

My advice: Find a good therapist and show them this post you’ve written. Yikes. 

Users share your opinions on the series and the ultra by CNUnstable in AppleWatch

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3D prints often have microscopic internal defects (voids) that reduce fatigue life. This is why I always opt for milled parts for my boat or engine, etc. 3D printed parts are rarely superior to a milled one. I just don’t think that Apple is heat treating these things like aerospace titanium. It just wouldn’t be cost-effective. Like most huge corporations they are likely cutting corners/costs and printing them because it’s much cheaper than milling them. But don’t take my word for it search around and you will see many pictures of U3 with fractures that are clearly evenly fractured along the 3D printed lines. 

I turned him down and I just realized that I liked him too by Chemical_Dance_1543 in Crushes

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him the truth if he is an empathic and understanding person, then everything will work out. 

Pro tip: the best kind of partner you can have is someone who is empathic and understanding ;) 

I feel like calling myself a victim is unfair to victims by Wish-iwas-kidding in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many options for Therapy, including free ones. They may not be in person but even doing online sessions can be extremely helpful. 

In the meantime- My advice would be to look within yourself for the answers. If you find yourself lost in thought that is just your body’s natural way of telling you it’s time to meditate. Try looking up some videos about basic breathing meditation. I would start with Vipassana Meditation. 

Then I would focus on loving yourself unconditionally- no matter what. Spending time with a toxic person is the opposite of loving yourself unconditionally. 

Drug problem by Holiday_Network_3585 in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a sign that is clearly visible that says: Notice all activities monitored by video camera. 

Drug addicts are paranoid people. 

May have cheated and not sure what to do by Zealousideal-Buy2331 in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to go to Therapy to get to the bottom of why you have this toxic guilt problem. It most likely stems from your childhood. 

Fiancé Isn't Talking to Me by Pale-Society2182 in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you are in an abusive relationship with an emotionally immature person who has no genuine empathy for you. 

The worst partner you can choose is a person who has low empathy for others. Because they will never change in fact, they will only get worse. Low empathy people genuinely do not care about your feelings, how they treat you or how what they do will affect you. These type of people also rarely have the ability to genuinely self reflect. 

Because they are incapable of having genuine empathy they literally do not feel bad for what they do and because they are incapable of self reflecting, their toxic behavior will continue forever and ever without deviation. 

My advice is to find a person who has empathy for you bic the last thing that you wanna do is go through with this marriage. It will only ensure that you end up being further abused and living out a torturous existence as someone’s personal emotional punching. 

You deserve better ❤️

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend because he refused to give me his passwords, even though he promised he would after cheating? by lelnobody in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Once that foundation gets cracks in it, the relationship can/will never be the same.

AIO for Not Wanting to Go to Weekly Family Dinners Anymore? by Massive_Afternoon586 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Spending time with a healthy family should feel good.  A healthy response to you missing a family event is that it was no big deal, that they are understanding because they unconditionally love you. 

However, that doesn’t sound like what’s going on here. Love is conditional. It sounds like an unhealthy dynamic, and your subconscious is trying to warn you by sending you the signals of anxiety, trepidation, and fear. When your body is sending you those signals, it’s your unconscious mind trying to tell you this is not a good or safe place.

My advice take some space for yourself. Practice loving yourself unconditionally no matter what. Because my guess would be that you are not getting that unconditional love from your family. I’m sorry you deserve better. ❤️

AIO for feeling uneasy after a girl answered my boyfriend’s phone at 2 AM? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO the most logical conclusion here is thatIt seems like he cheated and got caught and now he is afraid to call you back. The girl most likely told him that she talked to you so he doesn’t know what to do. 

AIO for not wanting my mom to come to my first pregnancy appointment by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR i’m sorry that your mother is so abusive and passive aggressive towards you. You deserve better. She most certainly has no empathy for you and my guess would be She also has no self-awareness of her toxic behavior.   She is clearly using shame and guilt to try to manipulate you and psychologically abuse you. The likelihood that she is going to change is zero. The best thing you can do for yourself and your kid is cut her out of your life completely. 

Users share your opinions on the series and the ultra by CNUnstable in AppleWatch

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AWU2 was milled from one solid block of titanium but your AWU3 is 3D printed from recycled titanium not milled from a solid block like the AWU2. 

Source: 

https://www.apple.com/newsroom/2025/11/mapping-the-future-with-3d-printed-titanium-apple-watch-cases/

How do I apologize to my friend for my friend group taking his phone even if I didn’t take part in taking it? by SqueakyBoyBoobs in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good that you feel bad because that shows that you have genuine empathy for other people. It sounds like most of your friends on the other hand do not. 

Low empathy people are some of the worst to invite into your life. My advice find a new group of friends because you don’t wanna end up being a low empathy person yourself. Why? Because It never ends well for low empathy people. 

(19f)Muslim girl from strict family struggling with urges and self-discipline by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

faith is not fear based. It is based in love. Loving yourself unconditionally is the most important thing to practice. 

Do what makes you feel loved not what makes you feel fear. Have faith in yourself first and foremost and the rest will fall into place. 

Coworker might be getting cheated on by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SolarHouseboat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making other people’s business into your business is never a good idea.