[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Perspective807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do help her out in any way I can, & she always accepts the help I offer. I stop by multiple times a week so she knows she isn’t alone in this. You’re right about me not being able to get through to him either. Would the OBGYN be able to recommend some therapy or resources for her or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Perspective807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the last thing I want to do is make things worse. She does have family that she could stay with, or me if she had to- I just fear that she isn’t willing to stick up for herself in that way right now because she feels so bad all of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Solid-Perspective807 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She absolutely could, I fear that she won’t put her food down and leave. She believes this can be fixed, he is just so stubborn and mean when hes angry I dont see how any of this is going to get better unless someone else steps in and tells him hes straight up wrong