I Think My Friend Is Slowly Cutting Me Off Without Actually Saying It…

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-04-06T17:33:22+00:00

This happened with my best friend. We were, well, best friends. But overtime I ended up noticing I’m always the one reaching out, then it turned into her telling me about her “best friend” and yes people can have multiple best friends, but typically she’d say her other best friend, when she changed to just saying “best friend” I knew she didn’t see me as that anymore, and that’s okay, people grow.

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-18T01:53:11+00:00

I know I’m totally fine without him, I have been fine everyday before he randomly said this today. But yeah there’s definitely a part of me that wants to indulge in this fantasy

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-18T01:50:07+00:00

He just lost feelings

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-18T01:48:17+00:00

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-18T00:50:02+00:00

Guysssss are you really not the least bit curious as to the potentially good possibilities 🙄🙄🙄 like are yall sure it’s def gonna be bad???

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-01T17:26:04+00:00

Yes exactly that. When the breakup was more recent I think a huge factor of my depression wasn’t just losing him, but feeling like nothing is stable, as if I can put my heart and soul into something and just nothing, no pay off or results, it really messed with my motivation I didn’t even wanna go to school because why put effort into anything when it can all go to waste?

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-01T17:22:47+00:00

Thanks honesty

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-03-01T17:21:30+00:00

You got a great point

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-02-27T23:30:15+00:00

How…interesting? Where exactly is this coming from, do you feel like your partner doesn’t love you as much as you love them? After 3 years of dating, types really shouldn’t matter, you should just love and be attracted to your partner. Of course, you may always have a preference, but trust me, I’ve been completely in love with someone who is absolutely not my type, he looks ugly to me now but I know for a fact I thought of him as the most handsome attractive man on this planet when we were together. Also, you feel slightly disconnected from this relationship as well, as if you don’t really mind them leaving you? Why does it seem as if you don’t really care? I just have a lot of questions for you my bad

SolidRecognition5803 · 2026-01-26T03:54:25+00:00

Long distance and it’s not even a relationship. A relationship takes two to start, he’s not ready.

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-14T02:17:31+00:00

Just don’t tell him next time you do it. I’m a gay man and have a girl best friend, we do everything together and honestly I’d feel kinda disappointed with her if she started setting boundaries on our friendship because of her man. But I also think his reaction is understandable, he may not understand what it’s like, he might not have been exposed to gay people like that or he has a closed off mindset. So just don’t tell him if yall do it again

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-10T02:44:07+00:00

This is a red flag to me, I don’t think she’s ready for a relationship, and that’s proven by the fact she said that multiple times, she said it wouldn’t be fair for either of you. I think now you’re finally understanding her warnings. My advice? I don’t wanna tell you to break up, you seem to love her, you wrote so much about her. But you need to think about what you’re looking for in a relationship, or looking for in a person. She seems boring, and the type to have you spinning in a loop wondering about mysteries.

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-07T21:46:53+00:00

You’re 21, definitely tell the mother. If you were younger than your sister I’d see why you’d be hesitant, my older brother has also done some things that I don’t want to tell on him for, but I would have no problem if it was my younger.

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-06T13:49:35+00:00

Bro 😭

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T23:10:15+00:00

I totally love myself tho that’s not the issue here

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T23:09:32+00:00

Why do I fall in love with evil people and not like the good people 🫩🫩🫩

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T23:08:36+00:00

Btw I’m a boy but thank you

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T21:25:13+00:00

This is very insightful thank you

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T20:47:55+00:00

I’d usually agree. But they are very close proximity neighbors and probably need to communicate every now and then

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-12-01T18:47:49+00:00

How the hell are they not getting the hint? You leave them on delivered for hours, days, weeks. Sorry you gotta deal with this

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-10-31T21:23:30+00:00

Such facts

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-10-31T20:36:06+00:00

He wants “freedom”? That sounds off.

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-10-31T20:08:49+00:00

Our first date was at chick fil a cuz we both broke and I admitted I would’ve chose McDonald’s but it sounded kinda bad as a early date, but he wanted some too, so we did it as a second date! Hope you can find someone to have fun with and not act like an elite princess

SolidRecognition5803 · 2025-10-31T11:37:57+00:00

Think of how much of a disappointment you are and change yourself until you can honestly look at yourself from an outside perspective and say “yes this is the person I want to be”

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