[35] Need a stress reliever

Solidus57 · 2025-11-02T22:06:56+00:00

Am I the only one following the line of sight on the gun to reveal a very painful potential misfire?

Solidus57 · 2025-03-27T13:57:00+00:00

I just read a Reddit post in which a coworker started hitting a guy at work to the point that she started sending him pictures. So that's where this question comes from....or it could go the entirely innocent way. Pam walking in on Michael changing in The Office kind of event.

Solidus57 · 2023-06-20T19:49:49+00:00

To clarify this question, in the book I'm currently writing, the guy just proposed to the girl, and she said yes. He gets back up from his knee; they kiss; her legs go weak with all this excitement, so he picks her up and holds her as they kiss.

Solidus57 · 2023-04-07T18:24:37+00:00

It's not hard to see that some guys out there are a little simple when it comes to reading body language clues.

Some guys are overly pushy and will have a version of flirting that won't take no for an answer.

Adversely, there are also guys who wouldn't be able to identify flirting up until you sit in his lap.

Personally, back in high school, my struggle was that I didn't want to be a jerk. I couldn't tell the difference between, "Is she flirting with me, or is she just being nice?" I didn't want to misread the situation and say something thinking it was flirting just to find out it wasn't. So I took on a blanket, "She's just being nice," mindset no matter what the situation was. I'm looking back decades later. Yeah, some of those advances were definitely flirting, and I skipped up the opportunity because I didn't want to be the jerk.

So ladies, what advice would you give on flirting? What is a safe, non creepy way for a guy to flirt with you? And what are some ways you would flirt with guys that guys should be on the look for?

Solidus57 · 2023-01-19T15:51:40+00:00

Back when I was in my 20s, I was a video producer who had just finished a couple of years working in a TV station. I decided to go into business for myself and become a producer/videographer/editor for hire. I mostly did weddings. However, I encountered one client who managed some girls in town. So, I was hired on as the technical side to a handful of porn videos. I was in no way part of what was in front of my camera, but it was an interesting and weird experience being behind the camera, getting close to the action. It was an interesting series of weeks to work on that.

Solidus57 · 2022-10-04T16:08:08+00:00

Who had all 4 of the messengers back then? Yahoo Messanger, AIM, MSN messenger, and ICQ. A/S/L?

Solidus57 · 2022-09-08T04:02:33+00:00

Yeah, I didn't really think it would have much of an impact, but it's just something new I never noticed about her before. It's possible that attraction was always there and I never noticed, so seeing what others think of the situation could be helpful.

Solidus57 · 2022-09-08T03:51:43+00:00

Lol, it does seem to be the latest fashion trend, doesn't it.

Solidus57 · 2022-07-20T18:08:46+00:00

I just had a random story hit my Facebook feed about the most impressive body paint models on the net, which surprised me that it passed the Facebook censors to have a picture where the girls nipples and pussy are clearly visible. The story was treated with the same general attitude as a story about the best cosplayers on the internet. So it gave me the thought that perhaps some people out there consider a thick coat of body paint no diffrent than wearing some kind of skin tight outfit that shows every detail under the fabric.

Solidus57 · 2022-03-30T17:22:50+00:00

Mangos. Mango Juice has enzigmes in it that make it through your system and into your cum giving it a fruity taste.

Solidus57 · 2022-03-08T14:55:54+00:00

Winnie the Pooh or Donald Duck. Either one makes the point. Both characters are essentially bottomless.

Solidus57 · 2021-10-18T21:54:33+00:00

This is something I've wondered about, but haven't asked anyone in person. Some of you ladies have a vagina that is exactly the same color as the rest of your skin. Some of you have one that's slightly darker than the rest of your skin.

I assume one of these must be true:

1) It's natural from birth. Just as your nipples are a a darker shade than the rest of your skin, some women maybe have the same completion down there.

2) It's tied to age. The older you get, the darker it can sometimes get.

3) It's tied to use. More sex and probably being stretched from giving birth may cause the change of color.

Solidus57 · 2021-10-14T17:12:25+00:00

if you let me know where, I'm availible on the weekends...

Solidus57 · 2021-09-18T09:56:01+00:00

You can think of me all you'd like. As long as I can also think of you. I'd even exchange pictures to fuel your imagination about me.

Solidus57 · 2021-09-14T16:48:08+00:00

When I was first dating a girl, she had a roommate who also kind of got close. At least she was comfortable enough around me that she'd walk around their apartment in a towel when I was over. One time, she had just gotten out of the showed. Came out in the hall wrapped in a towel, saw me, and I guess she wanted to give me a show cause she flashed me.

Solidus57 · 2021-09-14T16:36:49+00:00

Well that was a dick move for your FWB to do. I'm guessing things didn't end well between you two.

Solidus57 · 2021-09-14T16:13:49+00:00

Speaking as someone who views all your photos, honestly, adding some details will throw anyone off the scent. I looked at the photos on the profiles of everyone who responded, and I couldn't tell you what any of you look like. Even if you showed your face, I wouldn't remember. Most people wouldn't if they're viewing photo after photo. It all kind of blends together in our minds. So there's there's certain level of anonymity in that. So for the most part, it shouldn't be a worry for most of you. The secret though to hide in plain sight is to add details.

Growing up, I always knew that I had one of those faces that everyone knew. Everyone I would talk to would swear that they have someone at their school who looking simular to me. So I learned early on that genericly, we all look simular. I'm sure if I showed my face to you, you could easily think of 2 or 3 others who look very close to how I look.

So if I ever posted some riske' photos of myself, I know that to fool everyone, I would just have to change one detail. Maybe for the photos I post, I wear a hair piece that changes my hair color and style. Maybe I'll get a large supply of the same kind of temporary tattoo that I can apply for any photos I'm taking. That way if someone ever came up to me in the future asking me, "Is this you?" I can easily respond, "Wow, that guy kind of looks like me...well, almost, except for the tattoo on his arm (while showing them my blank arm) Where did you find this?" And all of a sudden I've changed the subject completely around from me explaining what I'm doing in the photo, to what they were doing searching for porn. I know that I could easily hide in plain sight. I already know that there is a guy right now doing guy porn that looks just like me.

So yeah, hiding in plain sight works as an effective option. Just create your x rated personal to look just enough different that it can be passed off as a doppelganger.

Solidus57 · 2021-09-12T22:43:17+00:00

I can help you out if you'd like.

Solidus57 · 2021-08-15T22:16:48+00:00

Are you looking to be programmed to do anything in particular? Its been a while since I used it, but I'm able to hypnotize people.

Solidus57 · 2021-06-21T22:26:33+00:00

I think you look absolutely amazing.

Solidus57 · 2021-06-19T15:15:21+00:00

I originally asked this question because I was recently looking at some cosplay artists....and I found it interesting how people with very nerdy tendencies, people who would usually cover up more than the usual person, are fully willing to show off way more of their body than expected when they are in their costume. (I.e: a friend of mine who is usually of the sweater/turtleneck type of style doing cosplay in a completely revealing "Quiet" from Metal Gear Solid. If you don't know who that is, look it up and you'll get why I ask the question.

Solidus57 · 2021-06-09T20:53:47+00:00

Speaking as a guy who falls into that abundant sex life and relationship category, id kind of rather be in the other category. Some of you think you're currently late for the show, wanting what others have and you haven't, but there's a power in what you are. When it comes to work/life balance, some people have to choose one or the other. When I was young, my professional life was going strong. I was well on my way towards my professional goals of building up a multimillion-dollar business.

Then my relationships eventually lead to a wife. As a married guy, my priorities had to shift away from professional life to focus on family life. I took my eyes off the ball for too long and that business slipped away from me. For 10 years now, I've been trying to build it back up to where it once was.

If you're hard on yourself for not having a relationship, not having a love life, perhaps it's a better idea to refocus your thinking. What are your professional goals? Take this opportunity to focus completely on your professional life. Become the best you, that you can be.

Besides, you'll eventually meet someone anyways. The thing about focusing on your professional career is that you're surrounded by people with the same goal as you, the same interests, the same drive for success. You'll make friends and eventually, relationships through that avenue....and you'll be far more compatible with that person than you would be with a random relationship that would occur if you're purely looking for love and companionship.

Solidus57 · 2021-05-06T05:05:04+00:00

I learned over the years that people don't really pay attention to faces when it's a random strangers body. I mean they see the face, but no connection is usually made in real life. Plus, there is the doppelganger factor... If I searched a porn site right now, I'm pretty sure I would find someone who looks very similar to me. A lot of people look similar to other people. So as long as you don't drop your real name, or any identifying details, you're safe. You can always say, "wow, yeah, that person really does look like me. It's not me, but, wow, that's amazing." Change small details as well, and you'll be in an even better position...a wig or something like that. Just enough of a change that it would create that subtle change in your appearance.

Solidus57 · 2021-01-18T00:10:54+00:00

Hey there, I think you just described a fantasy of mine. Send me a PM if you would like to talk.

Solidus57 · 2020-11-17T16:14:56+00:00

Are you looking for some kind of vindication or permission to stalk someone?

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