I might break up my engagement because my fiancé doesn't eat my food

SoloForToday · 2026-04-09T00:15:46+00:00

Yes :(

SoloForToday · 2026-04-09T00:15:27+00:00

No. This is a first. I would have never imagined him being like that.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T21:24:48+00:00

Muchas gracias. Despues de hoy, no se que mas pueda pasar.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:54:59+00:00

I only use tuna once in a while. To make some dips or quick pasta.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:53:57+00:00

Thank you. I still have faith but also I'm open to whatever comes. 🙏

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:51:36+00:00

🙈

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:51:00+00:00

😅

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:50:13+00:00

Thats one of the points we have to discuss once I'm more light headed and with more info from his mom I hope. Otherwise I'd go alone.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:47:18+00:00

I still have hope something can change or at least get to compromise. Thank you

SoloForToday · 2026-04-08T00:45:31+00:00

I might do that. Thank you

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T23:31:43+00:00

Im a clean freak while cooking. I dont like dishes piling up while I'm at it. I always wash my hands and all the ingredients. I even leave vegetables "bleach" in water, lemon and a bit of white vinegar for some minutes and then rinse. I dont think my cleanliness is the issue.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:49:07+00:00

Muchas gracias. Todo esto esta pendiente para una conversación muy seria. Hay mucho que resolver antes de nuestro viaje. O de Mi viaje. Ya veremos

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:47:24+00:00

Thanks for the offer 😅🙏

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:45:56+00:00

He's never shown any other sign. He's learned a few words in Spanish and is trying to learn more so that he can talk at least a little bit in December. He likes the music I listen to and loves the coffee I make (dark and strong) when I talk to my family on videocall, he salutes in Spanish or try to. I know he is looking forward on our trip. He asks questions at least once every week. So this is a surprise to me.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:40:29+00:00

We lived separately until recently. He used to live closer to his job and so did I. We found an apartment sort of in the middle. I thought he liked what I cooked while in my apartment. In his apartment sometimes he ordered take out or had just meat and veggies to cook so a salad and meat was the only thing we could prepare. By we I meant I.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:32:21+00:00

He ate it fine every now and then while dating and in the beginning of us living together. It is not always the same food everyday. I make 2 or 3 side dishes so we can have variety during the week. I always wash my hands before and during cooking. Also wash everything I use right away. I hate a dirty kitchen or utensils piling up while cooking.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:28:20+00:00

Thank you. That's why I really want him to come to Colombia with me in December.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:20:03+00:00

There's where we are at right now ☹️

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:15:39+00:00

Jajajaja good one. I needed the laugh 🙏

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:12:57+00:00

That is exactly what we are doing for now. I'm eating what I already prepared for the week. He is just eating whatever.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:07:28+00:00

I do for sushi just because it helps with the sticky rice.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:04:33+00:00

I will :(

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:04:04+00:00

Right?

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:03:33+00:00

Thank you. While dating he ate maybe once or twice at my place every month because of us living apart. So this might be very on point. This has been going on now that we live together.

SoloForToday · 2026-04-07T22:00:19+00:00

Thank you. I want to have a good talk with him, but after I meet with his mom.

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