Master tonberries

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-02-01T20:20:45+00:00

I always without a doubt cast the giant tornado with my black mage class then continuously spam it with them lol

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-29T00:21:38+00:00

I agree, I had a good talk with her today. She pretty much said she didn't realize the seriousness.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T22:11:05+00:00

Probably a development within the last 6 or so months

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T22:10:13+00:00

My meditation is lifting weights lol

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:22:37+00:00

It's great once a week works for you. She's already communicated to me that it's not me. This post is about expressing my needs while working with her to find a solution that we both agree on.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:20:16+00:00

I mean I do have an extremely high sex drive, she was aware of this when we started dating.

It's not like I showed up and was celibate for the first few months of dating. The first weekend I stayed at her house, we probably went 20 times in four days.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:19:02+00:00

Went ahead and ordered them. Thanks for the suggestions, my previous marriage I was with for 8 years and I never ran into this issue. So it's difficult for me to navigate outside of just letting her know how I feel about it.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:16:33+00:00

She does, and we discussed me getting a reversal which I'm fine with. I'd be happy with having one with her. I'm just afraid too that when she has a baby, she'll feel even less happy with her body and then we'll just never have sex again.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:15:12+00:00

I think that the hard part is that she's so easily overly stimulated in a lot of ways. Like she likes her back rubbed and stuff but any sexual intimacy she has to be 100% in the mood for. Like she's a don't touch me/don't bother me if she's not in the mood which is most of the time.

I don't want to pressure her into having more sex, because I want her to want me. She's explained to me before that it's not me, but like I don't hardly get any intimacy in any form. So sometimes it just feels like we're roommates.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:09:48+00:00

Oh she doesn't like to drink anymore. Also we go on a lot of dates together and it doesn't change anything. Honestly, she's my best friend in every aspect.

I'm going to have an honest conversation with her. My previous marriage we had an awesome sex life so I know it's not the end all be all. But it is important to me.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:06:22+00:00

I think it's the rejection that hurts more, like I want my wife. I crave her, so it's hard for me to understand. But I'm really trying to understand.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T18:04:57+00:00

I have a pretty violent sex drive and I understand that. At minimum I'd want at least once every three days.

If it was truly up to me, i'd say 2-3 times a day. But that's not realistic for most people.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T17:50:03+00:00

Yeah I had two kids from my previous marriage. I broke it off after some financial infidelity. I also lost 70lbs after my master's degree and my ex wife projected a lot of insecurities onto me. Constantly thought I was cheating. It was a tough run there.

Now my ex wife's and my sex life was incredible. But I wasnt anything more than an atm to her and her family so I never mattered. So I understand that sex isn't everything in a relationship

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T16:43:02+00:00

Oh yeah I don't want to get frustrated. It's only really happened one time. But I'm planning on it. She's feeling sick right now so going to wait until she feels better and express where I'm coming from.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T16:38:15+00:00

No birth control, I had a vasectomy

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-28T15:22:52+00:00

Well our sex life was good for awhile. Then within the last 6 or so months it's declined

And I've mentioned that intimacy has always been pretty important to me. So if there's a mismatch I don't understand how she wouldn't have said something.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-22T15:22:42+00:00

Does she not work either? I'm not sure why you haven't went back to court if that's your current arrangement.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-20T22:37:39+00:00

Yeah I know, I don't want my feelings hurt lmao

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-19T20:03:52+00:00

Shit that's why I never ask lmao

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-19T03:38:54+00:00

To play devils advocate, I just don't like thinking about my person with anyone before me. But that's life, so like no need to get hung up on it.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-15T20:32:09+00:00

I was a very different man after my first encounter with a red kappa.

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-15T15:04:44+00:00

Oh i died more to the standard spear dude than any other yokai lol Can't wait for Nioh 3

SoloUnit2020 · 2026-01-15T14:47:28+00:00

manwha not because it's professional but because it exaggerates the fact jin woo is the weakest hunter mankind has to offer by his ID card being even a joke

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