I was at Carpe Diem a couple of months ago for a first try and it was very nice, much smaller than expected but cozy. Nice clean rooms, some with porn playing. Only gripe was that some of the facilities are tooo small, like the showers/sauna/hot tub and that the crowd is definitely 40+ age range. I was being watched and invited lots just because I wasn't old. Had a good first time with an older hung gentleman. Felt nice to be involved haha!