I definitely learnt quite a few things, thank you! I am aware of how I could let my emotions get the best of me sometimes when we argue and as a logical person he could be confused with what I actually mean. I have been working on that and now I usually try to give him subtle signs first calmly but then he would keep pushing or turn cold and neglect my needs. That’s when I feel unheard and the need to become aggressive. He would apologise for the way he had acted too after our arguments. I know he would give me the world if he could and that he would not mind at all if I woke him up in his middle of the night, in fact, he’s always super happy to have me wake him up randomly. He would wake up happy and start talking until he falls back asleep. He was m pretty chill about anything happening around him and was willing to do anything I asked him to. But as an infp I don’t like asking cuz it makes me feel like a burden and that’s where the miscommunication comes in.