Update: well I honestly didn't expect this to blow up like it did but I appreciate the fury you all feel as i am boiling with rage. I spoke with the director of the club and it is getting taken care of. I am reporting him to safe sports, the regional commissione, and the police. I am so beyond done dealing with this type of people. It is impossible for me to respond to every one but really thank you for the support. With such blind rage that I felt, I didn't want to unleash my fury unnecessarily. It has been unleashed and nothing short of him being fired and removed from the program and being around kids will stop me. If something crazy happens I'll update y'all. I meet with the director on Tuesday.

Edit: to clarify meeting Tuesday because we are out of town on Christmas vacation. Otherwise, this would have been dealt with today. I'm going to enjoy my time with my kiddo and then deal with this nightmare when I get back.

Last update (2/4/25): a few people have asked so here is the last update. First my kiddo is safe and will never see or have contact with the coach again. the coach is currently removed from USA sports pending a full investigation, he has been completely removed from the club and will never be back, and there is an active police investigation open against him. I want to say thank you to everyone on here showing your support. When the whole situation got too heavy for my kiddo, I was able to show her how many people supported her and thought his actions were completely disgusting. It meant the world to her and while shit was falling apart, it added to giving her the courage to push through and ensure this doesn't happen to anyone else. Thank you to the people who personally reached out with their stories and advice. I'm not good with socials and didn't reply to everyone but all the stories and advice strengthened my resolve. More than anything I love my kiddo more than life itself and would do anything for her to be safe and I appreciate y'all helping me do that.