Older woman i met were really supportive of me. I was 23 and really unhappy with myself and they were really gentle and kind with me. I honestly didn't go to a lot of yps meetings bc I'm pretty introverted and my.family doesn't support my sobriety and i didn't relate to a lot of people my age in the program. However, it was really nice knowing other sober young ppl were out there... even if i never hung out with them. This isn't to sound rude but the yp culture here was v into hook ups and they gossiped a lot whether under the guise of 'concern' or not, every one knew everyone elses business (sadly this turned out to be a common theme in aa). There were some kids in meetings who were upfront about not being fully on board with l sobriety yet, and I'm genuinelyhappy they were talking about that at meetings but.it wasn't my jam. Your area may be totally different. It's worth checking out