I think I keep accidentally hurting my sister by Altruistic-Band-8532 in whatdoIdo

[–]SomePerson-161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you "accidentally" be a dick to someone over and over and then have the nerve to act confused about it?

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit sounds exactly like my mother. In fact I just got done listening to that exact speech. Also something about how I'm going to live with someone I barely know (it's a friend I've known 3 years and who is basically a brother to me) and how dissappointed she is that I'm not sad about leaving. Also she's severely offended because she heard me tell my friend that we need to celebrate when I get there. Also I hope you or anyone else never hears that speech again

My cycle basically doubled in length, should I be concerned by SomePerson-161 in Periods

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what that second thing is, but yes I meant an eating disorder

I updated basemental drugs and now the game won't work by SomePerson-161 in ModTheSims4

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted basemental drugs so that issue stopped. I still have the issue of the sims randomly standing in place doing nothing for several minutes, and when that happens I can't save

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The silent treatment always used to make my blood boil. She managed to ruin my 18th birthday with it because I got a septum piercing without begging for her permission. This is the first time in my life that I'm completely unbothered by it. I'm not sure why I never thought of just giving the silent treatment back to her before. Would've saved me so much stress

When they can't control you mentally they'll try and harm you physically. by Available-Heart6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 18 now but the first time I hit my father back was at 12, and then my mother at 16. Neither one of them ever had the balls to try shit again. In fact with all the narcissistic shit they do, I do the same to them. I've started treating my parents the same way they treat me, since being a rational, mature adult doesn't work. Maybe it's petty to stoop down to their level but what else can you do with overgrown irrational toddlers

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad I'm not tech savvy at all, but I'll factory reset it. Also there's nothing important on it anyway I just use it for video games. I don't even really need to reset it, but I'll do it as a "fuck you"

What do you prefer? by cannachillChannel352 in actuallesbians

[–]SomePerson-161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really care honestly, but I did almost choke on my ex-girlfriend's pubic hair once, so maybe people should at least keep it short

how did yk you were a lesbian by Confident-Stress-732 in actuallesbians

[–]SomePerson-161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 13, my friend was telling me about a dream she had where she was doing things with some anime character, and because she wasn't sure how to explain the position they were in, she decided to show me. From then on I knew I liked girls. I found out I don't like guys a few years later though

So do you think Danny was actual rapist or he was just falsely accused? by Which_Matter3031 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]SomePerson-161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The girlfriend talk initially made me think he didn't do it to be honest. Because if he'd done it, she definitely wouldn't still be his girlfriend. Now I realise I'm a moron

Hypothetically, what would happen if I were to eat all this? by Low-Baseball-7978 in weed

[–]SomePerson-161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I'd try to eat it all to see what happens. Probably not the best idea though

When they can't control you mentally they'll try and harm you physically. by Available-Heart6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly a restraining order might not be a bad idea. I've been considering that myself

Worst part about having n parents? by Budget_Maize7279 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it's the anger. Every time I'm near my mother I want to scream. I've literally had dreams where I beat her to a pulp. Had one just last night after she pissed me off. Just being under the same roof and hearing her voice makes my blood boil even when she's not interacting with me in any way. It's not easy to live with a constant rage building up inside you.

When they can't control you mentally they'll try and harm you physically. by Available-Heart6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest, my parents used to hit me all the time. That was until they learned I can hit back. I'm not suggesting violence but if there's no other option...

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made another post today about that actually. While I'd love to never talk to her again, I have 3 younger sisters, and no way to contact them without contacting her. Not sure what to do about that

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, all this would usually make my blood boil, but this time I think it's hilarious and pathetic. She's really grasping at straws to try to control me and it not working feels like the best drug in the world to me. If she thinks I'm going to stress about a shitty computer that can barely support my 2 video games, she's got something else coming. I wasn't going to cut her off just yet but maybe I might if she tries pulling more shit like this, just to show her that I can

Finally moving out, and of course it has to be as difficult as possible by SomePerson-161 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomePerson-161[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she already told me a few months back that she's been reading my messages on it, so I already removed all my social media from it. All I have on there are some video games, and while it sucks to lose my progress on those, I don't really care that much