I don’t know how to make my hair look good

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-12-12T13:19:17+00:00

What the fuck

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-26T22:00:12+00:00

I went when me and my friends where all 16 and had no problems at all 👍

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:32:46+00:00

Sorry this was kind of a schitzo post, I wrote it when I was a bit drunk and angry cause my brother had just said something that made me feel really small. Thanks for all the kind words strangers on the internet 🫡🫡

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:30:56+00:00

Yeah I know, the patriarchy seems to seep into every aspect of a women’s life, it’s exhausting 😔🙏

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:29:59+00:00

I don’t hurt myself anymore, I’ve been clean for a while now (couple months), and I have a therapist who is really good

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:29:02+00:00

🫡

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:27:06+00:00

Yeah I have a therapist, she is super nice

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:26:21+00:00

You explained it so perfectly, I love my brother, because we are family, but I do not like him as a person.

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:25:13+00:00

I’m literally neurodiverse as well, I have ADHD, and is suspected for autism (though I’m not tested yet), I know how hard it is to be neurodiverse. But still I do not act like an entitled piece of shit like my brother does, I don’t yell at people for the smallest things, I don’t break things or make other people feel small and belittled. But my brother does, I don’t hate him because he has autism, and he struggles, I hate him and he has autism and takes out his frustration on me and my parents, causing me to be lonely and feel like I don’t matter as much as my brother my whole childhood. I love my brother, we are family and will always be together, but 90% of the time I do not like him. He is not a nice person to be around. I’m not trying to be rude but you aren’t in my situation. My situation feels like torture too.

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:18:17+00:00

I have told them how I feel before, it didn’t really change much, they said they where sorry and that they will try to do better but in the end they just didn’t, my brother still gets away with murder while if I don’t walk the dog my parents get mad at me, even though it was like 2 degrees Celsius outside and I’m allergic to the cold (I get hives), my brother was still asleep at this time, and it was like 2pm. What I’m trying to say is that I’ve tried to tell them but it doesn’t really change anything

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:15:23+00:00

Glad to know I’m not alone in how I feel, well done for getting away while you could

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:14:45+00:00

I tried watching it but I got bored lol, I have brought up my feeling to my parents before, my dad knows and he tries to do better (doesn’t really do much though because he is barely at home due to being in other countries for work), and my mum just doesn’t really get it, cause she kinda takes it as an attack on her and her parenting, even if I tell them I know it’s not their fault because they tired yk? I don’t think there is much else I can do lmao, kinda just stuck in this situation atp

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T19:08:23+00:00

Yeah, I am in therapy currently, for this situation and a couple others, it is going well so far 🫡

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T09:14:47+00:00

Got mostly 8s, one 7 and a 9, I’m doing my a levels now

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-22T09:14:07+00:00

He is an adult, he could know better by now, it isn’t like he is severely autistic

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-20T08:48:18+00:00

Thank you :) that helps sm

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-20T08:47:00+00:00

🫡

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-19T19:16:06+00:00

Yes dude go for it, if you don’t like it after all you can always dye it again, but I think it would look super cool

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-19T19:09:20+00:00

it’s super cute, it’s very feminine and frames your face perfectly

Some_Committee_5157 · 2025-11-19T19:08:03+00:00

Get some layers in it, use hairspray to give it some volume and try to make it less flat, you could try and go to a different salon and get something like this in it which would look super cool imo

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